...wouldn't let you see her house because she says that it's messy. As the months went on, she reveals that she is uncomfortable with you coming over because she had a bad childhood experience that makes her uncomfortable in her house. BTW, she has lived there for 8 years now. Come to find out, she lives with this guy who is supposed to be "gay", but they share the same bedroom in a 3 bdrm. house. Months go by and she says she's in love with you and invites you to her daughters parent/teacher meeting, then her daughter tells you that those 2 sleep in the same bed. When I asked her what we're doing for the holidays, she says she's spending it with him! I dumped her the next day. But WTF? I don't understand liars!
2006-11-05 14:40:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should have left her when she wouldn't let you see her house. There were MANY clues here which you seemed to ignore! She was using you. Go find someone decent!
2006-11-05 14:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you dumped her, so I guess that is the end of the problem. I never understand though why liars think you won't find them out. I mean do they really think that they can carry on a relationship and NEVER invite the person over?
2006-11-05 22:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Angel2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand mentally ill people. Makes perfect sense if she was. How did you not see that? She must have been a really good actor or you must have been desperately hopeful. Come to think of it, I had a parallel situation with someone who was bulemic and hid it well from me. I wanted to believe she just got sick from a lot of foods, but it wasn't that. She wouldn't get treatment for it and the relationship had to end.
2006-11-05 22:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Rustoleum_James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some girls that like to watch gays together or even participate. There are many women that like using men and no one understands why. There are women that love to strip tease in bars etc. that do not need to, it's for the attention. You did the right thing, she would only hurt you more if you stayed.
2006-11-05 22:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. She does not sound like a gf, just a pathological liar. Mov on up da street
2006-11-05 22:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by N_UrDreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant stand liars either but unfortunately they are born every minute. Sorry to hear what you have suffered but at least you dumped her and that was the best thing you could have done...............good luck
2006-11-05 22:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't either.. I don't understand how she thought she would get away w/ it consider u're around her kid.. little kids tell everything.. glad ur dumped her ***.. go find a real woman
2006-11-05 23:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you that you dumped her. Sounds like she was using you for some reason.
2006-11-05 22:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, liars suck. Good thing you got out of that one, she's kinda psycho, to have had that go on. Listen to your instincts.
2006-11-05 22:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand either, but in my opinion you did do the right thing.
2006-11-05 22:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋