i have been talking to a friend for like a year already.it ended up as an emotional thing.i met him in the weirdest way,by mistake actually.i have sisters,and theyre not with me,actually,all my family is back home.im here alone.but i was sending an im to my sister and typed hr name wrong by one dot,and that was him.and he said hi.i kind of thought about it but then responded and we have been in touch for almost a year.we call,and text eachother.we talk on cam.and nothing sexual.no phone sex or anything sexual.and now he wants to marry me.he iss going to relocate so we can be married.and im kind of freaked out about it.i mean we gonna date first,of course.and know each other face to face before we do that.but i never thought he would do such thing.i am just freaked out because of my children.i have three kids from a prev. marriage.should i wait,for my children to be older,before i have another relationship?i have been single for 2 years.and my kids are babies still.whats your opinion?
2006-11-05 15:02:36 · 4 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You certainly don't have to wait for your children to grow up before marrying again. You deserve to be happy. But it will be a big risk to marry a man you don't know yet, especially because you got small children. So what I suggest is that you first learn to know this man who wants to marry you, see how he treats you and your children. Wait till you're sure you love and trust and respect him. Then marry him and be happy!
2006-11-06 05:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by ina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your best bet would be to see him in person first and get to know him better. Sounds like you want him, but then the way things are with you right now with your kids and all, I'd say he comes second place. Marriage? Not a good idea. How do you know if he'd treat your kids right? Anyway, that's just my opinion. Once again, your best bet is to get to know him better. Good luck!
2006-11-05 23:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Allen K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to sacrifice happiness because of the kids. As long as you take care of them and yourself then go for it. Dating is fine and who knows you might get to enjoy yourself. Good luck.
2006-11-05 23:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, your divorced, and free to date, why not give yourself a chance for happiness. we all need someone in life,we all need a partner, life is hard when he have to go it alone. give him a chance, and get to know him ofcourse. good luck
2006-11-05 23:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋