My new partners EX is a total nightmare, and because of this I havnt met his kids as yet, which in turn puts me at arms length when it comes to family gatherings on his side.
It is not intentional, because she rarely lets him see his kids, and in fact there hasnt really been an oppertune time to meet them as yet..............so because of this my girls and I wernt included in a party last weekkend, because he thought his kids were going. ( and it wasnt the ideal introduction time )...........and his ex didnt let them go after all................so we were left out for no reason, am I wrong to feel upset ?
2006-11-05 14:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He needs to persist on seeing his kids. I know it's hard, but it's his duty to see them.
2006-11-05 14:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by eh77530 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eeeww! What a common mess. The ex-wife is being ridiculous! Can you see she is already setting you up? Can't we all just get along? The more confusion you have in this particular situation, the more the kids will catch on. Sounds like she could be the type that may bad mouth the Dad too........biiiiig mistake. That one always ends up biting you on the *** as time goes by. Please try to be neutral, even casual so that the kids (yours & his, right?) won't see any anger. Be patient & try not to let it effect you (or don't let it effect you at all). That'll get the ex even more frustrated too! The more she winds up, the more you stay aggreable. That'll teach her to try & make trouble for you! Smile!
2006-11-05 22:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by PAMELA G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partners, ex who knows what, your girls, his kids. I find it unbelievable that people really live lives like this. How can you expect a normal, happy life with drama like this. Calling your "new partner"s (how new?, what is a partner?) Ex a total nightmare does not say much about your "partners" choices in life. Stop, get a grip, stop playing into everyone's hand. If you are part of this family in a legal or long term (more than 2 year) moral relationship you have a right to attend family functions, regardless who comes and who doesn't. This "partner" of yours needs to understand this and if he doesn't then he is just playing you for a fool.
2006-11-05 22:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be upset too. He needs to be the one to tell her enough is enough. Quit playing games, its all about the kids anyway. Good luck.
2006-11-05 22:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he trippin
2006-11-05 22:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Redd Hott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋