people talk of mid life crisis' at 40, 50 but most people i hear about dying do so at 70 yrs old or before. I feel a bit lost and i'm 32 surely i'm the one having a mid life crisis. At 50 i'd say it's an end of life crisis.
2006-11-05 13:58:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can understand completely. I'm 54 years old and at 30 I went through a crisis. At thirty I thought I should be further along in my life than I was. Very confused and mad at myself for (I thought) not being where I should be. Now at 54, besides the normal(menopause) I'm ok. I feel like I'm right where I should be in life. I think it's normal what your going through, not that that makes you feel any better,but it's normal. You'll be fine..
2006-11-05 14:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by popcorn102452 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called mid because 50 is midway between birth and 100! Get it! At 50 life is still very much real ;it isn't over or even near over. There can be many traumatic things happen in a life at any age. It doesn't have to happen at 50. I got married at 18 to a guy who still hasn't grown up. Because of my decision to marry when I was young I suffered many more crisis than most people even have in a life time of a 100 years. So depending on your choices during your life, by 32 you can have had more than a plenty of hardships and crisis, if like me you married a jerk. Thank God I am no longer with that jerk and life as gotten easier, but many people at midlife have big disappointments with their life and have big regrets and reasons for a crisis! Some people have a constant crisis like I did when I was with my first husband. then some people have a kinder gentler life.
2006-11-05 14:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had a mid life crisis at 30. I was desperately unhappy, so decided to fix it. I left my husband, home and job, and started all over again. Financially it was a bad move, but other ways it was the best thing I could have done. I may have another one at 50, who knows...
2006-11-06 05:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 43... hit a mid life crisis at around 39.. was dreadin the big 40.. cant stop time though no matter who you are or how old.. sometimes i worry about getting old, but hell we are all going the same way aint we... 32 is the prime of your life.. dont waste it honey... have a ball xxx
2006-11-06 01:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by 007jaynesblonde 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think you're supposed to take the term literally, but we are living longer, so maybe they're starting later now!
You could be having a quarter life crisis, or a third life crisis. Sorry you're feeling lost, hope it gets better.
2006-11-05 14:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, 50 is hardly the end of life! At 32 years old what you are going through is normal--you're not twenty anymore and you're not sure where your life is heading, right? A lot of us go through that. Its called taking stock of your life and growing up.
2006-11-05 14:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how did you comprehend that it became HIM who broke up with Vanessa? possibly Vanessa broke up with him or they both wanting to end it? and notwithstanding if he did end it,why would you imagine it became a midlife disaster? do not believe any of the stupid tabloid thoughts. Johnny depp has been referred to as a heartthrob for over 20 years and yet he's continually been in good longterm relationships. in case you pay interest to his interveiws he says that once his father and mom were given divorced he became very depressed because he not had a relations. it really is why he were given married at 20 because he became wanting to have a relations. i imagine he's a relations guy and not in any respect the type who would go away the mother of his toddlers for far youthful girls human beings.
2016-11-28 19:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my crisis is that at 52 i feel 32 but my hubby at 57 acts 67..that is a crisis, its like living with a pensioner (not that all pensioners are inactive I know) but I didn;t think I would be living with a guy who sleeps in the chair all evening and then goes to bed and sleeps some more.............. maybe I will feel my age one day.
2006-11-05 23:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was 30yrs in the same job and retired at 49.im 54 now and life is great,i live in spain for 6 months in the winter and work on a campsite in uk in the summer.im having more fun and laughter than ever before and my kids are totally supportive.dont have time to get stressed out worrying.if i can do it so can u.
2006-11-06 04:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by carboncook 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah man, mine hit about 30 since most in my family tree didn't live to 60. Its like going through puberty, you lose your mind for a while and hormones go wild, you don't think rationally. Just remember to stick with your family. Family is everything and once they are gone---they're gone.
2006-11-05 14:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋