my ex gf and I dated for 3 years, we were very close to each other , but chose not to be in touch with each other after we broke up. Its been two years since, she is married to some other guy now .
I have no problems with it, but what is bothering me is that she is travelling to the very same places that we had travelled to while we were dating, even staying at the same hotel and takes the same kinda pictures that had taken in the past, like standing in front of the same monument, sip coffee at the same cafe.
She then puts it on a site and she knows that I do check that site. Is she doing this for spite ? or is it her way of telling me that she has moved on ? or is she creating newer memories.
any thoughts ppl.
2006-11-05 14:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by boratwasfunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No its not spite. She's having a good time with her now husband. Just because you went places with her doesn't mean that town, that cafe, or that monument are now exclusive rights to your prior relationship.
It really just sounds like you are having trouble moving on. Why do you check her site? Why do you care? What is so wrong with her having wonderful memories with her husband? Frankly to me, you sound jealous.
2006-11-05 15:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me, that either she never got over the relationship, or she has been to these places with other people and truely enjoys them. With you or Him, she will continue to do this. I'm sorry to say both I think its all of the above!
2006-11-05 22:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by meow699423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is creating new memories,this isn't about hurting u, it isn't even about u, she must have meant alot to u, as i percieve u haven't been able to move on yet. move on, create new memories with someone else,get a new love, don't look on her site, don't talk to her, the more u think of her the worse it feels, she was someone u loved, and it hurts to see her move on and be with someone else, but we have to let go, so we can heal our hearts. we have to create memories with another,we have to find that special person who will love us. in the past when someone has hurt me, i avoid them, and everything connected to them, so i can move on. to hold on to someone who we are no longer with, is just wasting the future we could have with someone else. enough grieving over a situation u had no control over, time to move on and out of this pain.
2006-11-05 23:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your ego run away with you...
She just liked those places...
She probably has not even thought about you lately...
She is just moving on with her life as a married woman..
2006-11-05 22:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a bit of both....
She's creating new memories in places that she likes....
and she's posting them to show you she's moved on.
2006-11-05 22:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be all of the above or none of the above. I thought she was your ex? Move on.
2006-11-05 23:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by Leila G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW she is GOOD!
It's spite, all the way.
2006-11-05 23:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spite, all the way.
Forget about her.
Get someone better!!!!
2006-11-05 22:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SPITE,SPITE,SPITE
run,dont be jealous,just move on
2006-11-05 23:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you care?Move on.
2006-11-05 22:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋