Earlier this year I met a really good guy. We talked on the telephone and then soon later we met in person and chatted for only about a good 20 to 30 minutes or so. We really liked each other. He told me I was cool and I thought the same about him. There just this one problem, He's married!
When he told me this, I didnt get the chance to ask him why is he messing around with other people when he's married. I forgot to ask him. He was a good looking guy, 26 years old, nice features and all. I was just foucs on how his looks was very appealing towards me.
We exchange conversation, but I didnt get the chance to get more information to where as he stays and his telephone number. But he did mention that he would of call me the next day, but he NEVER DID!
Now, I am trying to figure out where the hack he may be? I do not even have a number or an address and plus he's married. He drove by my house once, but shook his head as if he's not interested and drove off.
I'm upset and mad
2006-11-05 14:49:09 · 21 answers · asked by Shaun M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Run! You don't even want to start something with a married man. Run away.........................
fast!
2006-11-05 14:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused about your story with the car, were you waiting outside for him or something when he came by? Or did he let you know he was comming? Or was it a total coincidince that he was passing in front of your house?
Whatever the answer, he seems to know where you live, and if he was interested he would come over. Since you don't have a phone number, apparently he called you, so he doesn't even need to drop by, he could call you.
I'm sorry to say that the guy is not interested in you. He has multiple ways of contacting you, but conviniently left no way for you to contact him,which probably means he doesn't want to be contacted. You're just going to have to move on.
I know it sounds harsh, but we've all been there, waiting for someone who doesn't notice you, and your situation is tougher because it's not like that guy you sat next to every day in highschool who never talked to you, because you have no idea where this guy is. But there is life after that, you just have to pick yourself up and move on.
2006-11-05 22:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Nope 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, I'm guessing that he just told you that you were cool so as to not hurt your feelings. It doesn't seem that he really liked you at all. Cause when a guy says he will call back, if he likes you, he'll call. And not only has this guy not called back when he said he would, he just never called back. So forget about him. Especially considering the fact he's married. Whatever reason he quit talking to you for is none of your business really, cause he's a taken man. So if the reason was he randomly decided that he wanted to be true to his wife, so be it.
Think about it girl...there was a REASON you weren't given a number or address...
2006-11-05 22:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Antonia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted you he knows how to find you. He hasn't contacted you. He's not interested. It may be hard to face, but you will save yourself a lot of time if you just come to terms with that now.
And stay away from married men. Why would you want someone who would cheat on his wife anyway? He will just cheat on you when you are no longer new to him.
2006-11-05 22:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel about this situation. There are people who does things and thinks that hurting people can sometime make them feel better or they are not thinking clearly of what they are doing.
I have been hurt many times myself and looking for someone to be with myself. I am going through a divorce myself from a wife who gave up hope on me due to my depression spell. I did all that I could by praying,asking for another chance and so on. With us having a child involved it hurts to be in that situation.
2006-11-06 00:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by mkcarp33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to let go. He is married and men hardly ever leave their wives. Plus, he's borderline creepy by passing by your house. It's an obvious sign that it's over. I know you have feelings toward him but it's a marriage. You will find someone better.
2006-11-05 22:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Curly Q Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably shaking his head in disgust toward himself. Think if you had a husband, and he was cheating on you with some obsessed woman. Not very cool, huh? Leave him alone. It's not fair to him or his wife. You don't want to be a home wrecker now, do you?
2006-11-05 22:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by Liz P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke, right? I mean, the guy is married, and you are upset and angry? Why? You want a relationship with a married guy? What ARE you thinking? Jeeez, hon, get a grip, and find men who are available.......He's taken, 'nuf said. To answer your question, "When Will I Find Him?" You should hope you never find this guy, or any other married guy. What ARE you thinking?????
2006-11-05 23:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to mess around with a married man anyways? sounds to me like he wasnt interested in you, and that it really pisses you off.. be glad it went no-where, and find a single guy.
2006-11-05 22:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by cribmaster_mn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time waiting. He's MARRIED which means he's looking to CHEAT. And if that is the case, then he's not looking for anything serious, cuz he already has that. If he drives by again...you should shake YOUR head....
2006-11-05 22:52:32 · answer #10 · answered by elprez14 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go if he's married , his wife might be a jealous psychopath serial killer, you don't mess with a married man.
2006-11-05 22:52:16 · answer #11 · answered by rencito 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋