2006-11-05 23:21:31 · 19 answers · asked by Niranjan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No because sometimes there are very good reasons for getting a divorce...i.e. if it's an abusive relationship or if the partner is a chronic cheater.
2006-11-05 23:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Leila G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Hari, People can divorce if the other person has committed adultery. Otherwise marriage is for life. However God is forgiving and will not condemn someone for divorce as it is not the unforgivable sin. I think for you to worry to much at this stage will hold you back from getting married though Hari. You can't know what the future holds anything could happen. But marriage shouldn't be done unless you really want to be with this person for the rest of your life. It's a commitment though good and bad. But i really think that the bad bits make the good bits even better. I hope you find someone that is in basic agreement on the important things with you. And that you are foremost friends first and can have a really good laugh. xx
2016-05-22 03:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can believe anything...it all depends where you come from. I don't believe divorce is a "sin," but I believe in trying to avoid it. Sometimes you can save yourself when you divorce your partner...but sometimes you forget trying to make it work first.
You get married for a reason...maybe more than one reasons, but the most important reason is to be together forever through all good and bad times...If you don't try to make it work...then you've just wasted your time.
People can change...for the better. We're all adults and we know what's better for us, if we're having problems because we need to be a better person, than we can try to change and make it work. But if we're having problems and it's pulling us into the wrong direction, then why do we still going the wrong way? If that's the case then divorces would save both partners from going in the wrong direction.
But if you have a strong belief in something...you can do the right thing.
2006-11-05 23:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by Razz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, divorce is not a sin, but God hate that.
If someone decided to marry, he/she must to prepare all the consequences behind. It should be realized that family life is not only for fun, it need more responsibilities, loving care, sharing characters and personalities, grow and built family together, prepare for children life, etc.
As you've known, after decided they are married with name of God, and give promise and commitment. Some of them fail to take all the consequences of being married, and many factors are involved, the most crucial factor is money. It looks silly if they married with love and divorced because of money, but it's always happened. In other cases, being divorced is the final way to solve problems.
So, divorce is not sin as well as can solve tough problem and prevent someone from danger. But also, God hate that because people use God's name to get married and make promise and take commitment based on that.
2006-11-06 00:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it is I'm in BIG trouble because I've gone through 3 of them. I think anyone in an abusive marriage has a right to divorce. Someone married to a person who just can't seem to be faithful has a right. Someone married to a drug addict (who wasn't an addict when they married) has a right. I'm not anyone's judge, nor or you, or anyone else. I hope and pray that you are lucky enough to find someone that you can love and live with till death do you part. It just doesn't happen for everyone. And by the way, try not to "look down" on people who are divorced, it is truly one of the most painful things a person can go through even when it's in the best interest of that person.
2006-11-05 23:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sin when you don't seek God for help and take it into your own hands to divorce. Now if you have a spouse who is beating the crap out of you to the point where you fear that one day they are going to kill you then divorce becomes an option. God doesn't put us in situation such as the one I just gave, we put our selves in those predicaments. Plus the word of God says that if a spouse leaves the home or abandon the home then you can divorce or if the spouse cheats! But if it is something minor that can be worked out then work it out. And by the way we do serve a Forgiving God.
2006-11-06 01:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by brown sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to but with abuse the way it is, God wouldn't want people living that if they had a choice. Life is all about choices. I had someone tell me that divorce is a sin after my kids dad and I split up. Ok, what about physical abuse? Isn't that a sin? He threw me across the room - am I supposed to stay married to that? NO! I choose to divorce him. So, I think God understands!
2006-11-06 00:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is a sin according to the bible. I believe if your husband is terribly abusing you physically and mentally then its not healthy for the wife as well as the children.
2006-11-05 23:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe divorce is a sin. I think it's wrong to believe that you need to stay in a marriage because you'll go to hell if you don't. It the wrong reason to stay in a marriage. I believe you should stay in a marriage because you love the person enough to want to work through the difficult parts to make the marriage work.
I don't believe in religion and all its dogma. I am a smart enough not to need religion to tell me how to be a good person.
2006-11-05 23:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you believe that...then that is ok..But i don't believe that it is always considered a sin.. you have to look at the situation..they are certain situations that are given in the bible that says a women can remarry and it not be considered a sin
Divorced x2 with those situations involved
2006-11-05 23:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by buggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋