2006-11-05 22:09:32 · 15 answers · asked by Ur Master Captain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because they have grow up and realised that it is not essential to have a man in their life, they know what they want and they don't settle for second best,they know that men also have to put in the effort in a relationship, and they don't let their men get away with bad behaviour. They earn their own money, and respect themselves, so men have to make more of an effort. That's why, they don't let men use them.
2006-11-05 22:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know three girls that are over 30 and not married and I have that they did it to them selves. They have become old before there time and set in there ways. This also applies to guys. If a person doesn't learn the art of being in a relationship they will blame everyone else around them for their failures and then say that they don't need to be with someone to be fulfilled while at the same time being bitter and resentful.
2006-11-06 06:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the time a woman is 30 she is very set in her ways. It would take an exact match of a man to meet her now linear needs. By the time they are 30 they have become independent and rarely marry or settle for someone after
2006-11-06 07:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because by the age of 30, they already know what they want to do with their lives. more than likely they have already established themselves as an indivudial and in their careers. not to mention their independence which will not be taken away. if they are to get into a relationship with any man then it will be as an equal partner. not with these unwritten unbalanced domestic roles depending on sex. they have been doing what they have been doing for 30 years or more. and that will not be taken away without a fight.
2006-11-06 10:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. Older women (and men, for that matter) start to get set in their ways. And older women start to get a big huge chip on their shoulder for some reason--maybe because of aging, maybe because they think that all the good guys have been taken, maybe because of a whole long line of bad dates.
If a woman gets to 30 and isn't married, maybe she needs to "bend" a little bit and stop looking for perfection. Chances are she's not perfect, if she takes a long, hard look at herself.
2006-11-06 06:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats the common notion.. that women at 30's are difficult to deal with because of deffensiveness but I think it is not deffensiveness but they are just being just of themselves and balanced thinker when it comes to relationship, learnt a lot better than teen who are easily got blinded by "love" and fooled by their emotions.
What's difficult in dealing educated, mature and balanced thinker then? Maybe, u just say it coz its difficult to fool them.
well, I'm not into 30's yet...heheh
2006-11-06 06:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by ghells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no laws that says a woman has to marry at any age but society thinks they should. So if a woman decides she wants her work in stead of a family most people look down on her. Sad because to each their own.
2006-11-06 06:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by snowflake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It MAY be because they feel like time is ticking and mentally it can take it's toll on SOME women.
2006-11-06 06:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably u meant "demanding", not defending. because they know how much they worth and wouldn't settle for less. and they also can say the difference between good man and a loser
2006-11-06 06:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because they hv been through so much in life.. and trust is such a fragile thing.. i'm not even 30 and yet i find trust to be brittle...
2006-11-06 06:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by I need a vacation! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋