My hubby just told on hisself by showing me a funny site that promotes single women on the side of it & in the area we live which means he set up an account. He said I looked at it but I couldn't get an account & you can check up on me . The old me would of jumped on that but that mess is not worth my energy. I just can't understand why it is important for him to lie like that?
2006-11-05 23:37:36 · 10 answers · asked by "karma" 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had someone answer that he is not happy & we need counseling before one of those women take him. Wish her & him the best of luck cause I'm not the one that has a problem but thanks for your advice.I hope she has a job cause my child support check will go out every month no matter what women he gets with.
2006-11-06 06:03:52 · update #1
Those "friend finder" sites pop up all the time. They use your IP address to know your location. Accounts are free unless you want to chat or something else. He is probably telling you the total truth that he he looked at it, curiosity being what it is. I like to see if I recognize anyone.
His interest is probably innocent and really not worth worth having a fight about. Do you really think he would show you a site with that link if there was any bad intent there?
Rest easy with the assurance that your maturity prevented the "old you" from having a big blow up over something so innocuous.
Congratulations, some people never get to that place.
Now all you have to do is work on your trust issue about his lying.
wink,wink.
2006-11-05 23:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by Flagger 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me a years ago. I was chatting with others in a relationship chatroom(discussing problems and similar situations and innocent stuff .)and my new girlfriend saw I was in a relationships chatroom and got all pissed off and took it the wrong way. Just keep in mind that people do use the Internet to help with problems and resolve personal issues just like you are doing currently.so the point is don't presume anything until you have all the evidence you could ruin a perfectly good relationship like what almost happened to meBTW we have now been together for almost 6 years and this is all true
2006-11-06 07:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the music web sites I go to to download MP3s has a side bar of 19 year old girls seeking love. Has nothing to do with it and it feels weird when they show it.
It's entirely possible he has not signed up.
But if you have any doubts about his fidelity, check easy to see non-snoopy things like your cell phone bill, credit card bills, ATM records, and his car's mileage. If he is seeing someone he calls her, spends money on her, and drives to see her. And he doesn't do it with his secret phone, secret car, and secret bank account.
2006-11-06 08:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is seeing what is out there. He is not as happy in your marriage as you thought. You two need counseling and quick before one of these woman decide to take him.
2006-11-06 08:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the poster above me. He wouldn't show you the site unless he really has something to hide.
2006-11-06 07:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Leila G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
keep a close eye on him, lying is just the begginning...good luck! (my hubby goes on filecabi.net too. I just try to do it with him...so I don't feel as bad when he chooses the ones with girls in them..)
2006-11-06 08:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Megan P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don;t understand this. neither do you apparently. Conclusion: file for divorce and as you do burn the house down adn post photos of him online in compromising positions.
2006-11-06 07:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by Raff 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he lied because he doesn't want to lose you.
2006-11-06 07:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jou-Jou 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well he is trying to flirt around
Regards
Sameer
http://sameer-shaikh.blogspot.com
2006-11-06 07:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sameer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WATCH HIM .
HE IS A FLIRT
2006-11-06 07:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋