2006-11-02 20:58:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Simple things!! Take an evening when you have nothing to do, grab some take out and park at the river or overlook--enjoy your meal and chat with each other--make it more intense by purchasing a lottery ticket before your dinner and talk about all the things you would like to do if you won!!
Take advantage of your weekends together. Get up early, shower and get 'all girly'. Climb back into bed with him and encourage him to do the same (replace the 'all girly' with 'all manly'). Early morning weekend sex can put a great spin on the rest of the day!! Also try the 'kiss me but don't touch me game'--this is always a prelude to something good! See who can hold out longer before reaching out to touch the other. I still haven't figured out who actually wins--the one that holds out or the one that actually takes it!!
Pick an evening to go to a favorite restaurant. Take your time through the meal to have eye contact and genuinely listen to what each other have to say. Hold hands or at least let them brush while you're headed to the car and let him open the door for you. Treat it like a more mature first date.
Take advantage of an afternoon that you're not too busy and take each other lunch. Men can do this for women too!! Make a favorite dish and pack it in a basket. Not only will you surprise your spouse but they will also hear things like, "what did you do to get all this" or "whoa, somebody must really like you today". Co workers will surely recognize this as a romantic gesture and give 'pointers' on how to show your appreciation!
Use an early morning as the time to do something spontanious. Walk together on the trail through the park or head to the swap meet or flea market. Use the mall as a place to walk and chat before all the gates go up and it gets too busy with shoppers.
BE SPONTANEOUS!! Marraige can be 'fun' even after many years. Liven it up with little surprises that make you both feel good.
ALWAYS make sure your spouse knows that you appreciate and respect their views--even if you disagree and have your own different way of seeing things, make sure they know you hear what they're saying and understand why they have the opinions they do. It may surprise them that you have actually been listening and not just tuning them out!!
2006-11-02 21:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by rsmithguilford 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of a boost do you want??? When married couples remenince about why they feel in love this normally gives a boost. Or when you treat each other the way you were when you were trying to get each other. Remember the first kiss??? Remember that special gift he gave you?? Remember when you went out of your way to impress her??? Keep the marriage fresh by doing new things and experinecing new things. Good luck
2006-11-02 21:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by MeToo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and always be the same girl ur husband fell in love with try and don't look old and out dated.species up ur marriage by always making wonderful surprises,do things that u know ur husbands loves ,make sure u appreciate him by telling him wonderful words ,make sure there is no dull moment when u are around ,have a listening ears and most especially species up your sex styles.
good luck.
2006-11-02 21:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by atola o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KICK YOUR HUBBY's ***!!!
No I am serious if a Beautiful and Sexy wife has to ask for a marriage booster than it means that the man isnt good enough.
2006-11-02 23:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of good things to do. Role play. Fantasy. Communicate more. Check out the sources I included lots of good ideas.
Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-11-02 22:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have Boost with milk daily in the morning.
2006-11-02 21:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what each others fantasy"s are and try to fulfill them. Talk to each other. Have a weekend away. Spoil your selves every once in a while.
2006-11-02 21:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never stop finding ways to fall in love with each other daily...make it a point to set a few minutes aside to say or do something special for each other to always let the other know that no matter how busy or whats going on they are always on your mind ...and always find something to laugh about together ..daily
2006-11-02 21:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by rebelsgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a nice long vacation in the caribbeans. Nothin like it!
2006-11-02 21:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a beauty clinic and get all of your body and face hair waxed.
Your husband will like you for this.
2006-11-02 21:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by satnee2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋