I am a married woman with children and in love with my sister's husband. He feels the same. how is it all going to end?
2006-11-02 21:45:38 · 19 answers · asked by Dippy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If its lust just do him, as long as it is kept in the family!
2006-11-02 21:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If the two of you act on this it will end with you not having a relationship with your sister any longer.
Please stay away from him, you will not only destroy your sister but also your children, husband and other family members.
Think about all the pain that this would cause for so many people.
Ask yourself also if this is really love or just an infatuation.
I hope you do the right thing.
2006-11-03 05:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm kind of panicking now because I have always had the feeling that my sister and my husband have a mutual interest in each other and my sister's nickname from childhood is Dippi...
...so in this I know what it would be like for me if my sister acted on these feelings.
1) I would never speak to her again
2) I would immediately file for divorce and tell her husband
3) I would tell the entire family, all of her friends, and every person she works with what happened.
4) I would take my kids and move on and start over
If she were to continue a relationship with my husband after all of that, I would get permission from the court to move my kids to the other side of the country - or planet - whatever it would take to shield them from their aunt and father's stupid behavior.
2006-11-03 07:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Zana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off! That is your sister's HUSBAND. Seriously, how much do you value your relationship with your sister? Furthermore, by ditching your husband to take up with your brother in-law, you will completely disrupt your family, which is completely unfair to your children and husband. Put your feelings for this man aside and focus on the bigger issue here. Don't do it.
2006-11-03 05:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing good can possibly come from this situation. Focus on your children and your husband. Think about your sister's feelings. And then stay away from your brother-in-law.
2006-11-03 05:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
i will tell you how it will end you will brake up your marriage as well as hurting your children and to top it up your sister will disown you for the rest of your life do u really want that that is your sisters husband woman what are you thinking of does she have kids to what would they think there auntie going with their daddy its not right your both going to split the whole family unit right down the middle is that what you want not to mention what your parents are gonna say u are both disgraceful i wont blame them if they never want to know both you ever again.
2006-11-03 05:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will end in a big mess. Just take these feelings out and dispose of them cause they can ruin lives! Plus, keep in mind the kids.
2006-11-03 05:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't have an answer for you, but i do know how you feel.. Only it's my wifes sister for me.. I told her how i feel, but she never told me how she felt.. Sometimes i wish that feelings were something that you could just turn on and off....
2006-11-03 09:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by chapstick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that's disgusting! How could you do that to your sister, not to mention your children? Do you think they're stupid and don't know what's going on??
2006-11-03 06:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're INLOVE with your sister's husband!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you love you sister? This will end in tears for you and everyone involved....
Stay away from him.....just concentrate on your own marraige.
2006-11-03 05:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It'll end in tears, if you don't put a stop to this now!
Pull yourself together, and start thinking of your children!
Good luck
2006-11-03 05:49:28 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ Kazbaz ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋