2006-10-29 12:43:29 · 22 answers · asked by xxreshdollxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to him and see how exactly he is feeling about this. My finace's ex showed up after nothing for 2 years...after him blowing her off for weeks she finally got the picture. I found comfort in the fact that he was open and honest with me about it from the start-no secrets and he made sure that she knew that I knew she was trying to mess with us.
2006-10-29 12:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell her nothing and do nothing to her but tell your husband she is not to call visit contact him and he's to tell her to take a hike....she's an ex for a reason and a very selfish person if she Waite's till he's married than goes for a move what she want it only what she can't have.
2006-10-29 20:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, horrid situation for you, but remember it is you who he has chosen to spend the rest of his life with. His ex seems like she needs someone to shake her and get on with her life instead of treading on your territory. Obviously she is hurting losing him tho, but that is not your problem. Your husband needs to do the right thing and tell his ex to leave you two to be happy. If she persists harassing you, perhaps she needs to be kindly addressed that you are married and to leave you two alone to be happy. All the best and hope u resolve this situation. Dont worry, your husband loves you, not her and if he doesnt tell her, you need to reassess your relationship x
2006-10-29 20:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by alexa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear that he's married to you and whatever she has planned you won't take lying down. But know that you can't control what he does. He may fall for this and turn his back on what you have. If that happens, he didn't have the kind of character that you need. Just be confident in your marriage and your love for each other. Don't get irrational or paranoid, but don't live in denial either. Be adult and don't make him wish he was with her because she understands him!
2006-10-29 20:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do nothing. If your husband want to go back to his ex girlfriend, let him go, because it is not worth it to love a bastard like him.
2006-10-29 20:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Myokiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your husband exes always pul shi--- when the guy is happy. Talk to your Husband if he is anything near a man he'll do right by you. Good Luck.
2006-10-29 20:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by revieskid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if *she* wants him back and he's not interested, it's a non-issue. Short of her knocking him over the head and tying him to her fender like a hunting trophy, that is.
If *he*, on the other hand, has any inklings in being interested in her again, you need to have a serious sit-down discussion about your marriage and her (NON) place in it.
2006-10-29 20:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR HUSBAND???? Why is he even talking to her is the question?? He going to do whatever he wants like it or not. Just be ready to deal.
2006-10-29 20:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by traci s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only O N E question here! Does your husband want her? Find out, PRONTO! But give him great sex too! Or she will!
2006-10-30 00:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Bijous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a thing! She's the loser.....you've got him. If he wanted her, he would still be with her....Relax, and enjoy your husband! She doesn't have a chance!
2006-10-29 20:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋