Marriage & Divorce - 29 October 2006

we had a fight then we decided to break up.. then later that day i told him that i was sorry and that we could get back together if he wanted and he said no, i asked him to think about it, and he said ok... how long do i wait until i let him go for sure? cause i love him alot and i know he loves me..

2006-10-29 11:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by Kim Buns 1

more women should be aware that there are safe houses,I was in a very violent marriage for 23 years because he terrified me,but worst of all its the psycological damage thats done to the poor children whose stuck there,my kids are still tirrified of him 9 yrs later,I wish i would of left yrs ago.

2006-10-29 10:52:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does he still light your fire?
Do you still get butterfly's in your stomach when you think of him?

2006-10-29 10:51:01 · 19 answers · asked by Gossip81 4

I have a friend who's been missing for almost a month with her four children. Her father and I thought she might have just took off for awhile to clear her mind. ( crazy husband problem, and others, ect.) Our local police have been called, but don't seem to be taking it seriously. There's no way she has any money left to feed her 4 children. (ages 2-8) And she's called no one or tried to get money out of her checking accounts in another state. What can I do to get the police to take this more seriously. I'm at a loss, and scared to death for her safety. She's only 31.
Who should I call, or do?
Any suggestions would be helpful and your prayers.
Thanks.

2006-10-29 10:48:28 · 4 answers · asked by Krn 4

My husband has been on straight nights, 7 days a week for 3 months now. Yes, the pay is good, and we are saving for renovations, but I really miss my honey. We have hardly seen each other, except for the 25 minutes before he goes to work when he is just waking up and tired, and for a bit in the morning when I am just getting up, and tending to our 2 year old. I really need some quality alone time with my man(if you know what I mean). I am tired of being alone every night, but I don't want to make him feel bad about working, cause he is doing it for us. This job may run for another month or so. Sometimes I almost feel like a single mom. Anyone else been through similar?

2006-10-29 10:30:46 · 20 answers · asked by shrimpseys 4

What is the difference between being married and being separated, or is there even one?

My parents, for example, are still married, but my dad has been working off five states away and we haven't been together in months. My mom and dad aren't divorced, but would they be considered "separated"?

Thanks.

2006-10-29 10:30:27 · 11 answers · asked by Link 5

2006-10-29 10:22:02 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ NïJâ♥ 3

You would think after 15 years talking would come easy.But it is not. I told my spouse this morning I felt very far away from him and we never talked any more at least not about thing that were deep.....I mean we talk about the weather and the kids and the house and stuff like that. But we don't talk aobut any thing with substance....Why? Have any of you been through this before? It is now evening and we have hardly spoken a word to each other since this morning? It is driving me nuts!

2006-10-29 10:20:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

A wife testifies in divorce court that her husband hit her, she left the house, walked down the street, and told a police officer her huband hit her, but says the officer refused to help her because she had no ID. Would it be believable that a police officer would refuse to help a woman who says she was hit because she had no ID? Also when asked in court if there were any marks on her she says" I didnt check"

2006-10-29 10:20:03 · 14 answers · asked by Joe 1

Do any of you have a spouse that is just "too nice"? Strange question I know....But my husband is always so nice to me.....I may or may not deserve it and it is just making me sick to my stomache actually.....I am not sure why but it does bother me.

2006-10-29 10:17:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

how long does custody case take these days. my mom wants me to live with her and is fighting the courts im about to be 17 how long will i have to wait? whats it like

2006-10-29 10:09:43 · 7 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

and he wont bloody stop snoring, any good tips! lol

2006-10-29 09:52:33 · 75 answers · asked by snoopdog 1

i really do love him.every five months he comes back.he is influenced by his father,that has been married and divorced 5 times,and working on number 6.when we are together its really good between us,but when we are apart,we dont even speak to each other.i really need advice about this.

2006-10-29 09:42:53 · 9 answers · asked by paula m 1

i 'd like to be married with an american woman , that's a dream of me... without saying that i am a "latino "...

2006-10-29 09:40:08 · 5 answers · asked by el hippie y su guitarra 1

To make a long story short, my husband and I have been married for a short period of time. During this time, he has been deployed to Iraq. So, we really haven't lived together long as husband and wife. Before we got married, my husband fathered two children other children as well as mine. I stayed with him. I forgive him for that. However, now it's just not working. We don't communicate. The sad part is I don't want to talk to him. Reasons being because he's very controlling and stubborn. It's basically his way or the highway. The other day I put a label on an envelope. He tore it up and put another one on differently. He also is abusive emotionally. He constantly put me down. Nothing I ever do is right. I"m here now because of my kids. How long does this last? Is it worth my happiness or peace of mind? Is this the price I need or have to pay for my children?

2006-10-29 09:39:20 · 29 answers · asked by Blu 4

How many times on average should a happily married couple being having sex a week? Be honest!!

2006-10-29 09:39:15 · 25 answers · asked by gerb30 2

Jaysus! Be responsible and fix things yourself stop relying on god to do it for ya!

2006-10-29 09:35:33 · 13 answers · asked by Lady 2

There is nothing like Love-marriage, you're both happy to have the person you love with you "forever". I mean fall in love first then get marry, that's the normal way.

2006-10-29 09:31:14 · 10 answers · asked by La Morena 2

i have found another man and he is really nice although he is single and a few years older than me. i have started a kind of covert relationship with him but my husband is still living under the same roof until after christmas. what do you think that my new love is thinking about this. i have 3 kids under 6. is he just using me or should i carry on?

2006-10-29 09:30:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont want to lose her and would give that or anything else to be married to her. We get along and love each other perfectly. Its just who I am and I want to be honest with her and also get ideas from her on how we should handle it.

2006-10-29 09:30:11 · 13 answers · asked by Fun Couple 1

This 6yr old has some serious behavior issues......The KID is disrepecting my HOUSE...I love her......but her CHILD is out of control...!!!!!

2006-10-29 09:19:53 · 24 answers · asked by D'antwon ;-)~ 2

Has it all been great? Of course not. Some days are better than others, but when the times get rough, we stick together, uphold one another. When we took vows for better or worse, we meant it. I love him more than I love myself. He loves me more than he loves himself. Therefore, we have a mutual respect for one another. I still believe in the sanctity of marriage. It's about being selfless and forgiving. God is the center of it all and has greatly blessed us. How many years have you been married?

2006-10-29 09:18:40 · 20 answers · asked by Catie 4

My almost ex-husband sent me a letter telling me that there was a big increase on the health insurance he is paying for all of us and that he changed or plans to change to another plan that is cheaper. The other plan, is going to be much more expensive for me. Prescriptions and medical expenses co-pays will go up and medial procedures are going to require a deductable now. Can he do this? Can he change the health insurance without my approval? Thank you for your help.

2006-10-29 09:17:59 · 17 answers · asked by Rita L 2

who ever reads this i need help my mom got remarried 5 years ago and everytime she is not around he yells at me or starts talking all this smak i tell her and she doent believe me what do i do??????

2006-10-29 09:04:22 · 18 answers · asked by Li!Zzyb3ar 1

It seems that the whole company has his cell number(he is only a manager) it really annoys me when man call him and let him about problems at the company on his days off and other managers are on duty, they call him to call in sick on his cell, no one lady called and it really got me angry and I told him why in the world this person has his number also.He said he is manager and other people give them his number.

2006-10-29 09:03:38 · 14 answers · asked by gil 2

Me and a friend went out for lunch one afternoon at a restaurant and as we were walking to our table, I thought I saw my girlfriend and my father sitting at a table together. So later on, just to make sure, I walked to the bathroom to check again and it really was my girlfriend and my father! I was confused, and I didn't go up to them and say anything. When I walked back from the bathroom, I saw them kissing, and it wasn't a peck on the cheek either...Should I ignore what happened or confront my girlfriend about it? I'm really scared that I won't like the truth...

2006-10-29 09:02:59 · 35 answers · asked by Suave Latino 1

Meaning...they all have a thing for ...say like Pam Anderson, carmen Electra, Porn stars... They are full of plastic, and lots of make-up....people Hollywood is just characters. But men...have it so lopsided, ...they love blonds, but the wifey is Brunett...They like the wild and slutty look'in...but they marry the church girl...why don't they make life easier for us and go marry what they want....I am in no way ...going to alter myself to look like a plactic doll. I am not in a realtionship where this is happeningto me...but I work with women , with low self esteem, and problems in the marriage. A lot of them feel they are not good enough for their husbands. One womens husband traveled to St. Tropez, when he heard P.Anderson was there.To the shock of his life,he saw her with no make up on,and hair not done. He returned home fast. but wifey had left him. Your Magazine, Playboy, Porn, Celebrities. ..So I ask...why don't you guys go get what it is that you really want.

2006-10-29 08:58:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i year ago i had affair husband decided to stay and work things .i came home from work and found a condom wrapper the dog had probly found in the trash or laundry we dont use condomes and the ones we have used say expires in2005 and this on says exp in2010.now what would youn think.at first he says it must be yours.then he was acting real weird nice.then the next day brought up the dates he got angry and said he wished he had so i could hurt the way he had so we got in an arguement left him home wqith kids took off for 1 week as soon as i left he called everyone we new said he has only been hear for the kids the last yr and has been living a lie whole year he had been hurt to bad.why one year later was he guilty ?is this a test to see how far he can push mabe thinks i will cheat again?told everyone so he does not have to come back?now he says he does not want divorce right now.i took of wrng he hasnt had his on sience i cheated.sex btr then evr now but as soon as over he leaves watz up

2006-10-29 08:54:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have met three different ladies in the past month and a half.
the first was into s+m, not my style, and a meth head (hence the baggage).
second ones husband walked out after a month and an alcoholic.
the one i just started seeing has caviar taste on a beer budget.
is there any woman out there that you don't need a degree in psychology to have a normal relationship, Please Help.

2006-10-29 08:51:37 · 9 answers · asked by jawtar 2

I love my boyfriend very much but his hair is greasy and his feet stink how do I tell him to take a bath without hurting his feelings. My familly cant stand being around him please help.

2006-10-29 08:37:14 · 22 answers · asked by indygrad2006 2