I love my boyfriend very much but his hair is greasy and his feet stink how do I tell him to take a bath without hurting his feelings. My familly cant stand being around him please help.
2006-10-29 08:37:14 · 22 answers · asked by indygrad2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I want to tell him without any thing to do with sex
2006-10-29 08:45:07 · update #1
every time you go with out mentioning it your slowing hurting him... if your at all a friend to him then you should just say it!
not in a mean way just say hey we need to talk
i love you so much but sometimes i think you should shower more frequently you come of smelling some times and i think that might distrub people..
tell him it is hard for you to bring this up but you have to you love him and don't want people to sniker behind his back
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good luck
2006-10-29 08:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy,
All you do is when he comes over tell him honey would you like me to run a bath for you?
And have everything ready for him when he comes over.
towel everything-
if your parents have a problem with that explain the issue at hand.
If you are too young , tell him he can't come by at night, because your parents feel he is spending too much time over the house.
and the best way to do it os to jokingly tell him in a sweet way- " Oh honey you are Kickin', you need a shower, and hopefully if you tell him that each day he'll get the message to shower first.
As far as feet go, buy him some lotrimin powder for his shoes and feet, along with a clean pair of socks each day and he should be good to go.
If he wears ratty old nikes or something tell him you'll wash them for him first. then just sprinkle the stuff in them .
And if your family likes him, ask your mom and dad to chip in and get him a new pair, and some new socks, and one container of the lotrimin foot powder for home and one for your house.
Good luck.
2006-10-29 09:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?? If you love him you need to just straight out tell him! How do you stand the stink? Why doesn't he take care of himself? Seriously though...what hurts more? Tell him he needs to take care of himself or let people talk sh** about him behind his back?! Maybe he can't smell it and thinks everythings ok? PS: showers - not baths It takes a guy like 5 minutes in the shower. I tell my BF when he stinks!
2006-10-29 08:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you heard on the radio that everyone needs to take a shower at least once a day or they will develop chronic bacterial infections on the skin.Sometimes these infections can produce fungus beneath the skin that are called arihumpgepers.This type of infection is very dangerous if left unattended.I don't know what that is because I just made it up,But it sounds good.Tell him that from now on your going to start taking a shower once a day because of this disease.Good luck
2006-10-29 09:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by charles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always best but... That can be difficult... Maybe mention something like... I was reading this thing on the web about this girl that has this problem with her boyfriend...*smile He doesn't need to know the exact people you are talking about. See what his reaction is. (By the way... since you asked the question and are reading the answers... IT'S NOT A LIE) Good Luck...
2006-10-29 08:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by Shar B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, that's just wrong. You need to tell him to bathe because his odor is offensive to not only you but others around you. Sorry but if he's not willing to take a bath/shower on a regular basis then you need to find someone that can. Good luck.
2006-10-29 09:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea the grudge seem isn't a kind. in basic terms attempt to communicate over such as her about what she thinks of her boyfriends dirtiness, and want to shave, and be conscious what she says. possibly she is wondering an same component as you. in basic terms keep in mind she is your daughter, and the suitable position modle she has is her own mom, enable her comprehend you're information, and easily attempting to assist. If that doesn't artwork you may want to continually conceal contained in the bushed with a hose waiting for him to deliver you daughter abode.
2016-12-05 08:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by fiddler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is important for intimicy. Ask him if he is aware of his odour, if he says yes find out what action he has taken, if not tell him about it. He should be assured that you care about him. Buy him a good mens shampoo and tell him you enjoy cleaning his feet. Soak his feet in warm water with viniger or baking soda. Then wash it with a good soap and apply a good cream. And kiss it, Tell him you like his feet.
2006-10-29 09:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run him a nice hot bath get the candles going tell him he is in for some kinky fun tell him to take his cloths off and jump in u wont be a min then once he is in sit back watch TV and have a nice glass of wine
2006-10-29 08:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you suggest you both have a shower together.....that could be fun!! That way you are not hurting his feelings, but are you getting him clean at the same time as hopefully having some fun if you know wot I mean!
2006-10-29 08:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ushy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋