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Me and a friend went out for lunch one afternoon at a restaurant and as we were walking to our table, I thought I saw my girlfriend and my father sitting at a table together. So later on, just to make sure, I walked to the bathroom to check again and it really was my girlfriend and my father! I was confused, and I didn't go up to them and say anything. When I walked back from the bathroom, I saw them kissing, and it wasn't a peck on the cheek either...Should I ignore what happened or confront my girlfriend about it? I'm really scared that I won't like the truth...

2006-10-29 09:02:59 · 35 answers · asked by Suave Latino 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

35 answers

you know they were involved,, and the good book ays honor thy mother and thy father,, what more glorious honor is there then to beat the sh1t out of someone with a gold plated axehandle,,find a jeweler willing to plate an axe handle,, for you to smack him in the head and body,,,as for her,,, just dump her,, she isnt family he is the one that shoulda had more respect for you

2006-10-29 09:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 1 0

Well you most likely won't like the truth, but I'd rather know the truth than pretend to know anything. I would definitely not ignore it though, because it's always going to be in the back of your mind. And you're going to keep on wondering about what really went on. So i would talk to both your father and girlfriend.

2006-10-29 09:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by A QUESTION 2 · 0 0

Oh my goodness!

Is your dad married to your mom? This is a serious issue, particularly if your girlfriend is under 18. If she is, you need to tell a counselor at school immediately. If she is over 18, then you need to tell your dad that you saw him. And confront her.

Get some help somewhere. A school counselor. A therapist. Someone.

This is likely to blow up in your face and you are going to need all the support you can get.

2006-10-29 09:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by servinggodalone 2 · 0 0

The truth? Seems to me that seeing is believing. You SAW the truth, particularly if it was more than just a friendly kiss. And never mind your girlfriend -- what about your father who is breaking his marriage vows AND doing so with his son's girlfriend??? Seems to me you have issues to work out with your dad.

2006-10-29 09:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

OMG, definately confront not only her but the both of them....sounds like they are having an affair behind your back. I feel sorry for you but wouldn't you rather know the truth now than later on?????

2006-10-29 09:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Wow, it sounds to me like you already know the truth - confront away - not just your girlfriend, but your father too. Good luck...

2006-10-29 09:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by Trish 5 · 0 0

Obviously they started a relationship and are trying to hide it from you.Of course you wont like the truth but im sure you already know what that truth is! Confront her!!

2006-10-29 09:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by Lindz 1 · 0 0

Most defiantly you should confront her and your dad. Because if she cared about you she would not be with your dad and if your dad knew you two were together he to would have respect you and her but it seems that they both knew what they were doing and didn't care about your feelings. I would also break off with her and tell your mom on your dad if they are still together. But if it was I , I would have walked up to them to let them know I see you two and what's going on here? You need to stand up and let them know you saw them. God bless you.

2006-10-29 09:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0 0

IF you are told the truth.
So sorry dude.
You have to ask though, otherwise you will always wonder and it will eat away at you until you know something.

2006-10-29 09:10:15 · answer #9 · answered by Cymbaline 5 · 0 0

Confront you have the right to know ,what the hell is going on.
By the way she is cheating if it ain't on the cheek then it ain't right

2006-10-29 09:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by big boy 1 · 0 0

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