Marriage & Divorce - 29 October 2006

just wonderin.

2006-10-29 05:02:02 · 24 answers · asked by whoremonger 1

well me and my ex have been sepeated for almost a year now...we have a 2 year old and we have been talking alot for the last 2months? we have been abusive and verbaly also....i live with my parents and he thinks that it is wrong but i had no where to go when we split....i live 100 miles away and i take the baby to him and pick her up every other weekend.....he says that i should because he didn't tell me to move that far away.....i think that he should meet me half way...but i don't think that the child should have to suffer just because of him being an ***????am i wrong and what would you do in my situation??? also he wants me to move back to st.louis to accomidate his needs and so he can see her more???no child support order is in effect and he doesn't pay for any thing????i made a promis when she was first born not to....i did it to my first and he hated me for it????

2006-10-29 04:48:32 · 13 answers · asked by wendy p 3

i had an hot arguement with my husband over a problem regarding kids.he said ,uwere fond of kids then its ur responsibility.when i said are not they ur kids, he said how does i know they are mine. at first i cried thinking that he said such a wrong thing to me. but now i m worried does he really think so or this type of husband-wife arguments are normal. we are married since last three years.

2006-10-29 04:47:27 · 11 answers · asked by jugnu 1

my ex was invited to a halloween party but before she went she dileberatly tried to make me mad. could she be seeing someone and just no want me to know about it? why would she want to start an argument and make me mad?

2006-10-29 04:33:00 · 21 answers · asked by mcgomery2001 1

2006-10-29 04:29:18 · 20 answers · asked by emiliobrown 1

i know he doesnt' love her

2006-10-29 04:29:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this weird?? Because my husband really makes me mad..I would rather have my own room..somewhere to go and just have my own space rather then sharing a room with him. No I dont believe in cheating. Nothing else is wrong other then we fight all the time. I hate it and would like some space. Oh and I dont want to get a divorce.

2006-10-29 04:28:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Won't harm my boyfriend. We are going to his house to pick up my contact lenses. I am white and my guy is black. My ex husband is rascist. Thank you, it means so much.
Could you please take a short moment to pray?
Plus both my parents just died.
I wouldn't be able to stand any more tragedy, and I consider myself strong.
On the other hand I asked people to pray for my parents and they died. I still would appreciate if you you would pray. I'm Scared. My ex is undescribely evil.

2006-10-29 04:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my fiance for three years now. We have been living together for a year now. He has no interest in staying in the state that we live in. I can not move because I do not want to leave my two kids and I have shared custody with my EX. I have asked when we were going to get married and he said I will not marry you until we move out of this state. I did not know how to repond to this answer. I did not think it was fair because he knows marriage is important to me and he also knows that I can not move. Is he being fair? How should I have reponded to that answer?

2006-10-29 04:24:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lets say your married for 10 to 15 years and a horrible accident happens that your husband loses his penis. Would you stay with him????

2006-10-29 04:20:16 · 17 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1

This is really embarrassing -- Okay, now please don't just reply saying to just 'suck it up' or 'do a reality check', because I've tried telling myself that and it hasn't helped--Here it is: My husband and I have been together for 6 years and I was in a previous marriage before that, and with HIM for 12 yrs. I didn't have this issue with my ex, but it has cropped up now and is truly ruling my life. I can't stand the sexiness in today's media (I'm 34) like music videos, TV, movies, songs, etc, and although my husband is totally faithful and has loved me at my various weights (and looks at me like I'm a princess even when I'm hideous), I can't help but feel sort of panicky at the thought of watching scenes with gorgeous women or those acting sexy. He doesn't watch porn and is sooo devoted, but I still feel insecure. I promise I'm not making this up. You know how sometimes someone will just say that 1 right thing that helps you to snap you out of something? That's what I'm looking for. Th

2006-10-29 04:18:56 · 4 answers · asked by BetchaBiteAChip 2

the wife is torturing the husband mentally by being totally inconsiderate and forcing sex

2006-10-29 04:11:16 · 5 answers · asked by anubhuti p 1

My husband and I have been married for a year and a half. We have a baby girl. We have been to hell and back since we were married. We have had major financial trouble, he lost his mother and he's had a hard time finding work he wants. Lately he doesn't bother with me or my daughter. Most of the time when I try to initiate sex he pushes me away. He tells me he's tired, stressed out, depressed anything really. He works from 3am, but only works for a few hours a day. He then spends the rest of the day online, relaxing or sleeping. How do I get him to want me? I have always had a very high drive, but lately feel so lonely not only in the bedroom but in our relationship too. Should I leave him alone or keep pushing for some lovin?

2006-10-29 04:08:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always hear people say that you must wait till marriage to have sex. Why? Whats going to happen if you lose it to someone you dont marry? I lost it to a prostitute when I was 15 and nothing bad has ever happened to me as a result. I did however get bragging rights for the rest of my highschool years because I lost mine before almost anyone else in my classes did. Whats the big deal??????

2006-10-29 04:08:19 · 13 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1

my friend is 21, she has been married since 15 and has 3 kids under the age of 5. she has never had the chance to be a teen or a young woman on her own without her husband around. He will not even alow me and her and the kids to go out to eat. she is debating on divorce what should she do?

2006-10-29 04:03:19 · 28 answers · asked by cert_pharm_tech21 1

While I watch.

2006-10-29 04:01:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have the proof. Spoke to the chick. He has been away for work for a month. I have no way of communicating with him. He is coming home soon. I dont want to break up. I am afraid its to late. I dont want to tear apart my family. I am losing my mind. Any advice. The main thing is I dont know how he feels. I am not sure if he knows I know. He probably does. Left all the proof so he could get caught.

2006-10-29 03:54:53 · 20 answers · asked by me 3

2006-10-29 03:53:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, my mom and dad are getting a divorce. they split up about 2 weeks and he moved out. they split because my dad was having an affair with another girl. that girl CONVINCED my dad to move out.

what should i do the first time i meet her (probably next weekend since were all going to the mall)

2006-10-29 03:51:16 · 32 answers · asked by BAMF. 6

I love a 27 years old girl but my age is 24.So plz tell m should i marry her or not?

2006-10-29 03:47:58 · 19 answers · asked by Smruti Ranjan S 1

2006-10-29 03:44:29 · 22 answers · asked by Smruti Ranjan S 1

He is 56 and married, I am 40 single never married my mum lives with me. We have known each other a couple of years and recently he made it known that his marriage was a sham and he had fancied me for ages. We have slept together and been out. I hav emet his mum who says she is pleased he is happy with me in fact gave us our blessing. He is head over heels in love with me, but I am more cautious, probably because I have my mother to consider she would be horrified if she knew he was still married. They share the same house. He says he will leave her as soon as I say that I want him, but I want to get to know him better, get used to having him around. It feels like a catch 22, I don't want to lose him but at the same time I can't give him 100%. Your advice please.

2006-10-29 03:43:57 · 41 answers · asked by mollygirl20002000 2

A few months ago I met with an ex and all the feelings rushed back and I realized I never fell out of love with him - we broke up so long ago simply because we were too young. Now I am married with kids to a very sweet man. There is no future or possiblities with the ex, he is also married with kids and in love with his wife. My issue is that I now realize I am not in love with my husband and I'm just unhappy. I'm thinking of leaving - not for the ex, because there is no future there, but just because living with someone you are not in love with is awful. But I don't want to break up our family because of our children. What do I do? Can this be repaired? I want to be in love with my husband but I think my heart is spoken for, always has been, so in this case am I better off giving my husband the opportunity to meet someone who can actually love him back?

2006-10-29 03:42:34 · 6 answers · asked by I'm Trying 3

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now - yes still early days but it has moved quite fast and we have fallen in love.
The problem I have is that his ex wife continually calls him to see where he is or what he is doing. He answers the calls as he thinks she is calling about the children but it never is and it is now getting very tiring. He has told her to stop mithering him but she just won't get off his case. He says she didn't used to do this when he was single but now she knows he is with me she just won't give in. Any advice how we can deal with this?

2006-10-29 03:35:04 · 22 answers · asked by loveable_lively_leo 1

If you cheated on your husband/wife...and eventually left your husband/wife for the other person...were you able to stay faithful to the other person? Or did you continue to cheat?

2006-10-29 03:33:36 · 11 answers · asked by Bella 1

Someone commited fraud on my accounts 14 months ago, and caused me to suffer severe financial troubles and now my credit is ruined. About 2 months after this happened, I was a month behind on the mortgage and could not afford to pay it at that time. She has a good paying carreer. After 8 years of marriage and paying the mortgage, my wife flipped! She asked me to leave and why I am still there. She suffers from depression. Not a month later, she calls me to wish me a happy birthday. Her kids, which I raised since they were 7, still call me dad and still call 3 times a week to ask for help on stuff.
We used to dance together and after the first month, she started returning to the dances I attend. Over the year,I have brought her to dances, bought her flowers, taken her out after the dances. She calls me with all her problems. Last night, she said she wants to be good friends and we need to get the divorce done. I dont know what to do???

2006-10-29 03:32:42 · 9 answers · asked by Tomy B 1

We pay almost $500,oo childsupport to his former german ! wife.(Court decision made in GA) She gets also the german child support money E 154,00 = $ 180,oo, because they living in germany. She is working too. We found out she married back in 2005 her american boyfriend , because we get our taxpaper back ! Her new husband has a very good payed civillian-job in the US Army in germany.He claimed US-tax for my husbands 9 year old boy and get ! the child tax credit .They told us : bad luck ! They have much more money than we have plus the child tax credit now. I have a daughter she is 20 years old. She has our family name and she's still in school and we have to support her in every way. My husband start the adoption for her and we are waiting for the final decision from the court until end of nov/begin.dec.2006. Do I have to work more now to finance also his son ? We are not able to pay alot of money for a lawyer and go to court.

2006-10-29 03:26:09 · 8 answers · asked by miss moni 1

2006-10-29 03:17:09 · 12 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

My husband just came home last week for Eid celebration. He went back to US today. I'm in Asia. We always had an arguement on the phone and it still continue when he came home. I use to say sorry for the thing that I've done wrong. He can't accept and keep saying repeating until I got tired to hear it. Then we will start argue unti we don't sleep together even we really miss each other. The mistake I did is just because I made a blog about our family. He left me withut saying anything and everytime we had chance to talk on the phone, he'll always says thing that I'd done. I am so sad and confuse about my relations. Please give me some advise. Thanks

2006-10-29 03:10:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have gone through quite a long string of bad girlfriends including two wives. Almost every relationship, for the past 15 years, has ended when I discovered them cheating. Some of them gave me the guilt trip for checking up on them in the first place. One literally screamed at me while accusing me of spying. She said that I should seek help for my sickness.

I would never spy on a woman unless I started to notice clues that something fishy is going on. I had trusted each of them fully until I had a reason not to. Furthermore, I have never cheated on any of them so, we can rule out revenge. Of course I am more gun shy now but I have always given each new woman a clean slate and treated them with respect.

Should I just accept that most women seek extra outside romance or should I continue fighting the battle forever? I sure have been lonely for the past year.

And don't give me the standard "not all women cheat" answer. It's gonna take a lot more convincing than that.
MrSlooooo

2006-10-29 03:03:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous