Marriage & Divorce - 29 October 2006

2006-10-29 01:15:55 · 14 answers · asked by MARTIN G 1

Been married 16 years , have 3 children over 10 always had a wonderful marriage. Caught him cheating at a hotel, never, how do i get past, not sure i can, financially secure, how do i explain to my children if we seperate, how do i keep my head up. I truly love this man, how do i get past the lie and humiliation. I am more hurt from the decite, i can get over the act. How do i trust again. If i ask him to leave, how do I cope, never been alone in 16 years??

2006-10-29 01:04:56 · 27 answers · asked by cookie 1

Between Wives and Lovers....

What is the difference.....?

Since you will treat them differently... ;P


As an example:

When a wife talks, she is seen as nagging.
When a lover talks, it is music to your ears....

Why guys? Why? ... when basically we are still the same species...still women....?

2006-10-29 01:02:57 · 25 answers · asked by DiL 3

I wondered if anyone else has this problem.... when my husband and I were first dating we would do everything together, we read books, played card/board games, played xbox, went on walks... now he doesn't want to do anything with me. When he is home all he does it spend his time on the computer or in front of the TV, he ignores me and the kids.
He says he hates playing card games and board games, and he only did that before because he wanted to make me happy.... so now we don't do anything together except watch TV and sleep..
Anyone else have a husband who doesn't like to do anything they do? What do you do? I feel like I'm loosing my husband.... I thought I married someone who would play with me and my kids, not sit on his butt in front of the TV all the time.....
Help!!!!

2006-10-29 01:58:59 · 25 answers · asked by mrs. ruspee 3

2006-10-29 01:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by bleann2 1

i recently met a lady who is nice and attractive,she works in a convienience store so when we chat its briefly,but she looks into my eyes the whole time we chat.its like shes looking into my soul.does this mean she likes me,,or is flirting?

2006-10-29 01:51:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I try hold her at times and not try anything, I bring her flowers and candy every other week just because I love her. I then ask her if she feels like doing anything and she says she doesn't feel good or she is tired. I don't know if having a baby 3 months ago has anything to do with it, but is it wrong to question her love for me for not having sex often? I even began questioning her about cheating and of course she denies. She used to have her hands all over me. 2 kids later, it seems like the only purpose for our bed is for sleeping.

2006-10-29 01:49:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

does a married man who cheated.........and has since moved in with his gf have a chance at it working out ......he is 42 she is 21 and he has been married for 24 yrs........honest answer please

2006-10-29 01:47:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you sit down or stand up when you wipe your bum??
my man stands up and i think that`s strange,is it??
what do you do?? x

2006-10-29 01:41:55 · 42 answers · asked by nicola 3

my hubby gets 2 days off a week and he would rather spend it out with his mates for aleast 12 hours a day when i ring him and ask where he is he goes mad all i want is him to spend some time at home with his family am i so wrong to want to see himand spend some time on our own without kids around i got take drugs i dont drink i dont play behind his back im a good mum perhaps i should treat him the same way its the same every weekend i hate the weekends

2006-10-29 01:36:45 · 36 answers · asked by LISA T 4

My boyfriend has two kids and was ordered to pay support in nc and NY, should he have to pay both. We are not sure which state the kids reside in. she has not notified the court. what should he do? He was ordered to pay more down here then he was up there. He has been paying but is years behind what can he do?

2006-10-29 01:30:41 · 10 answers · asked by pegasis 5

2006-10-29 01:27:30 · 3 answers · asked by kay 1

2006-10-29 01:26:57 · 8 answers · asked by susanfish 2

are alot of yall from mississippi?

2006-10-29 01:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have noticed a change in the tide over the last couple of years and I think men are taking control back now Women have now shown us that they are very capable and a force to be reckoned with but because we have learned so much from them we now know how to look like we're playing the game and convince them that we are what they want us to be! we're acting dumb! (thanks for the lessons)

2006-10-29 01:15:49 · 13 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2

I was seeing this guy whom has a live in girlfriend of 15yrs. I am know longer seeing him and my sister went out and told me she seen him with a another female this weekend hugged up. We seen each other for 3yrs and he still has his girlfriend. However, I didnt think it took him no time to replace me and move on. Why do some men continue cheating and searching for other women when they have families at home? How can he say he even loved me and moved on so quickly. I haven't even thought about another guy. Is this something I should let him know about although I broke it off with him? Along with all this he called me on yesterday to see how I was doing so he say. This was before my sister called. I now think he was calling to see if my sister had told me. I really love this guy but I can see he is not the one for me. Can someone please answer me of why he is doing this? and how can he say he love me when he is doing things like this.

2006-10-29 01:07:04 · 18 answers · asked by Prettygirlinsc 1

2006-10-29 00:58:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 00:55:00 · 16 answers · asked by Borchap 1

before we got married, she had appx. 8000 in credit card and 18000 in school debt. we accrued nearly none while married. am i responsible for her debt when we divorce? (again, all debt was before we said "i do", and in her name solely)

2006-10-29 00:39:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 00:30:54 · 27 answers · asked by serene 1