2006-10-29 00:55:00 · 16 answers · asked by Borchap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know you are talking about your husband and i'm sharing the other way round instead if you can bear with me.
nothing much can be done. i'm a very hot tempered person as well and the fact is my husband can't change me and thank God he still accept my weakness and every time when i'm mad at something he can only listen to all my 'stories' and that's already enough for me cause all i need it's a listening ear and after having unload all that out from my heart, feels so much better cause it's really not quite a point to carry that till the sun goes down. we can't change a person but if we are already together we have to learn to 'brush' one another up but on the other hand as for me temper has mellow down so much as age grows cause we become more settle and wiser.
2006-10-29 03:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you deal with this swiftly! I'm not to big on the accidental hit in the eye thing because I'm sure that had he not been acting like an unfit husband the accident never would have happened in the first place. One thing for sure is if you let it go and do nothing the next accidental hit will be accidentally done on purpose. When tempers are not high and everything is ok you have to address this issue immediately, you did say the kids are having to endure this as well right? Think they deserve it?
2016-05-22 05:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on what U really want..If U still love him and still want 2b with him.. if it happens, then U'll need to calm down and take a deep breathe..don't try to make more argue with him coz will mk it worst.. and i'm sure he'll mk apologize to U afterwards.. but if U think U can't live like that anymore then U should live..don't turn around...just go on with ur life.. hope U'll get the best choice of urself.. take care
2006-10-29 01:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by lady 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both should go to a Christian church and learn about Jesus, the Son of God.
Once you accept Him as your personal Saviour, and your husband too, then watch out...He can make your husband like a little lamb...Only Jesus can change him.
Matt 19:26
26 Jesus looked at them and said, "With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible."
God Bless you & your husband!
2006-10-29 01:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First thing you have to know is, both of you are happy in bed. I am sorry to say that, many of the husbands will show their anger in every action and conversation they interact with wife.
Is he behaving the same way with others. If not, as of my knowledge sex is the key factor in your relation ships.
if he is behaving the same way with others also, plan for a vacation and you have to let him to reveal all the thoughts in his mind and heart.
try to understand him more and more, definately you will find a soultion in his actions only.
2006-10-29 01:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by cgowrinadh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he should go to therapy if he got some anger problems. But, I wouldn't excatly tell him like, "OKay, I'm tired of you and your anger problems, you need to go to therapy! So get ya'll *** up and come with to therapy!" I wouldn't suggest that... I would just try explain like," Honey, I am worried about you and your attitude towards people especially me, I think you should go to therapy." Just explain to him why and just stay calm, no matter how angry he may seem. Or you could leave him like he is. You the one who love him and married him.
2006-10-29 01:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hubby obviously has issues. He needs counselling! Discuss this possibility with him. You can't live from day to day wondering if hubby is going to blow up or not or what's going to happen if he does! If he gets physically abusive, get the strength and LEAVE!!! NO ONE needs that! Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-29 01:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jillybeanyweiney 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whenever he gets angry be completely calm. Act as if he's acting completely normal. Re-enter the "discussion" later when he's cooled off.
2006-10-29 00:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to find out the underlying cause, in the meantime, if you want to stay married to him, Cater to him!
2006-10-29 00:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignor him and let him rant and rave as you walk out of the room.
2006-10-29 00:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋