I was seeing this guy whom has a live in girlfriend of 15yrs. I am know longer seeing him and my sister went out and told me she seen him with a another female this weekend hugged up. We seen each other for 3yrs and he still has his girlfriend. However, I didnt think it took him no time to replace me and move on. Why do some men continue cheating and searching for other women when they have families at home? How can he say he even loved me and moved on so quickly. I haven't even thought about another guy. Is this something I should let him know about although I broke it off with him? Along with all this he called me on yesterday to see how I was doing so he say. This was before my sister called. I now think he was calling to see if my sister had told me. I really love this guy but I can see he is not the one for me. Can someone please answer me of why he is doing this? and how can he say he love me when he is doing things like this.
2006-10-29 01:07:04 · 18 answers · asked by Prettygirlinsc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because They are jerks and they'll never be happy with just one woman. They need deliverance.
2006-10-29 01:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was on the other end of a similar situation. My ex husband had & is still involved with another woman for years. He never gave a straight answer as to why he would continue to be a selfish prick. He did admit that he was a sex addict & that his other woman was willing to do anything including threesomes, etc. So, in his mind she was perfect for him for his addiction. He said he didn't love her, but I think maybe he was infatuated, or obsessed with her. He doesn't respect her. I on the other hand was perfect for him everywhere else. I helped him lead a responsible life. I helped him financially & did everything she wouldn't do for him, like cook, clean, respect him & love him. I don't think men like this ever change. He had many, many opportunities to end it, he kept going back to her. I finally divorced him. I realized I deserve better, much better. So do you. Ask yourself why you feel you deserve so little out of life, or love. The more you ask this, the sooner you will realize you are worth more than he ever deserved.
2006-10-29 08:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but you fall in love with a guy with a live in girlfriend...hmm I suppose he quit doing the girlfriend while he was with you.
Now you want to know why he is cheating...well he isn't married for one, no commitments, so is it really cheating.
Two...he does it because his live in girlfriend, he has a new female, and he had/has you and you ALL let him get away with it.
Its time to take a deep breath of reality....now its gonna hurt....ready...inhale and hold it. You sound very needy and as long as you allow men to walk all over you they will.
Get so sick of "sugar coating" answers on here so as not to offend someone, if this offends, then i am sorry. But reality is what it is...its real...and sometimes the truth hurts.
2006-10-29 08:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some men have weird thoughts going thought there heads like do you love me or are we having any sex and are we loving each other or o she has big boobs all that stuff he keeps cheating because he wants to see whats better in the world then what he already has. He thinks your special but he has his mind on cheating and he can't change that unless he knows you know that he is cheating and that you don't like it talk to him and ask him why he is doing this ask him if he wanted something from you. well i hope i answered your question.
2006-10-29 08:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by sugarlump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pretty stupid, sweetie!!! Men continue to "cheat" because of women like you.....DUH!!! You knew his status and you had a 3 year sexual affair with him. You really degraded yourself to the Max so stop blaming him!!! You brought this all on yourself so stop blaming him and playing the "poor me" role!!! Clean up your act and make some healthy relationship decisions for yourself. You are acting like a looser and he has no respect for you at all. Stay away from the married men and those with girlfriends....what is the matter with you????
2006-10-29 08:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, you were just another notch on his belt, this guy is very selfish and only thinks of his own feelings, he will continue to cheat until he gets caught! Some men just can't seem to get enough!
2006-10-29 08:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a "Player"......plain and simple. Players never give their heart. It hurts, I know , to be played. You gave your heart! He gave nothing. To answer your question....they want to see how many women they can have, and hurt, in a lifetime. Move on! He's NOT worth the pain! Good Luck!
2006-10-29 08:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Tar & Brush Question
2006-10-29 08:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we continue to cheat because.................fill the blanks ie.
1- just
2- whatever
3- loneliness
4- its offered by whoever.
there isn't really a complicated reason. men have cheated since adam ate that apple in the garden of eden.
2006-10-29 08:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by jackbauer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cos that thing didnt go to school,no educational background was just born to grow n screw so have no respect,that y it misbehaves n rules the mens brain thereby pushing them to cheat
2006-10-29 08:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by ebonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men cheat because women love cheating men
2006-10-31 07:08:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋