anyone know how difficult it is when a man tries 2 find help 4 domestic violence?

Answer 1

I can't imagine. Have you filed police reports? Don't be afraid to call the police on her. If she breaks the law, she should pay the consequences. I bet she'll stop in a hurry if you file a report. The best thing to do is pursue it as a legal matter, counseling can come later, if at all

Answer 2

I'm still sure it isn't seen as the 'norm' for domestic violence to be women against men. If you are being abused as a man, there is absolutely NOTHING to feel ashamed about. Do not think twice, report the abuser to the police who take domestic violence VERY SERIOUSLY and they will help you. Good luck

Answer 3

Please don't feel ashamed, or find it more difficult as your a man, all human babe just some are more nicer than others. women today aren't like they used to be, they all want to be like men, this makes it sooo hard as when violence becomes an issue, how are you supposed to react, you can't hit a woman, at least rise above that much so you don't lose it and stoop to her level, as the whole thing would be turned on you. please log everything, photos if need be dates, times and places. don't be a victim of anything, you deserve to be treated with respect better communication. hopefully someone here can tell you where to go other than police. stay strong and sort this out... x

Answer 4

Do you mean you are a victim of domestic violence?If so then yes I do know.I worked in a battered women's shelter.There were no resources for men.It is really sad when you consider 15% of domestic violence victims are men.Hopefully your locally police officers can help you.If not try calling the help lines in your area..Good Luck!!!

Answer 5

tere are support numbers for domestic violence you might even find them in the back of a phone book. there are groups out there that can help you just need to find one. good luck

Answer 6

Call the police and follow the steps. Don't hit her just defend. It is harder but it will work. Get a retraining order then get her in jail first time violated. equal rights. supose to be anyhow.

Answer 7

Call the cops and have her reported you need to do something if she i breaking the law she needs to pay....Just like a man would it's just not right that anyone should go throught that.
Chin up and just do it.........

Answer 8

When you see a woman with two blackened eyes, you will know she was told twice. Seriously, you call the law first, and you get the advantage to tell your side.

Answer 9

It is very hard, as nearly all places are set up for women. And you can get dismissed with "men don't suffer spousal abuse."

Answer 10

i know cos it happened to my friend and he is actually on antidepressants cos he doesnt know what to do or get help from . everytime he looks for help he is put down and people dont seem to believe him. good luck