Marriage & Divorce - 28 October 2006

Im 27 yrs of age, UNHAPPILY married, with 3 kids, 2 of which are my biological children. I work as a loan officer which in this day and age has its ups and downs. My wife works part time for USC and attends school fulltime. The original agreement was if you took accelerated units and completed school fast I would work and hold home down. That was 3 yrs ago. Times and money has changed. I asked her at the beginning of the yr to get a job so she could help. If need be take time off of school. Instead of taking a $60k a yr job she took a $13hr job so she could still go to school. Now money is super tight, behind on bills, and now Im the triflin one, im the one who isnt doing his job. Mind you im commision only. When I was out in the streets, I was everyting she didnt want. (Her opinion) Now im trying to do right, Im wrong! I fore warned her, she didnt listen. Now that money is gone and times are hard, she hates me. No Sex, Attention, the kids are constantly put ahead of me. Help!

2006-10-28 23:46:58 · 18 answers · asked by aukasted1 2

havenot been with anyone in the pass five month i and my ex are no longer together but tuesday night i wanted to call but i donot wise to make it look as if we are geting back together

2006-10-28 23:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by lines 1

for all the people that are in long term relationships (10 years plus). Do you wish there was more affection in your relationship or are you happy with the way things have doled down? Do you miss all the excitment of the new love? Do you just wish there was more in your relationship.

2006-10-28 23:32:23 · 21 answers · asked by I'm In Love With Delicious 3

Besides getting physical, is there somthing like candles, food, music, cuddling that a woman needs to make a "Romantic" evening? What is the que this is romantic?

2006-10-28 23:14:30 · 15 answers · asked by Red 5

If an attached man was out and had a few drinks and an attractive woman came up to him and offered him sex with absolutely no strings attached, would he take her up on her offer.

2006-10-28 22:59:31 · 71 answers · asked by Ally 5

2006-10-28 22:57:49 · 15 answers · asked by budi 2

I am married, but knowingly or unknowingly I keep thinking about one of my colleague. The more i try to avoid such thinkings but still it comes.. I don't know what to do..anyone out there have such situation.. Am I cheating my partner... what to do ?

2006-10-28 22:44:47 · 25 answers · asked by Amanda 1

my man and i have been together for 3 years, we seperated for a week because we both had doubts about our love for 1 another. We just got back together again last friday. How do we get the butterflies back? I remember when we use to take each others breathe away. I just want it to be like it use to be. But how do we do that? How do we bring it all back?

2006-10-28 22:43:39 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl 1

That may or may not indicate that a divorce is imminent....just trying to figure out where I stand.. Thanks

2006-10-28 22:39:47 · 8 answers · asked by Mackdaddy4_U 2

If they don't trust you, does that mean they do not love you?

2006-10-28 22:38:34 · 12 answers · asked by Red 5

I have been married and faithful to my hubby since I was 16!I'm now 20 and am probably the most sexually repressed person of that age I know!I never got it very often...and when I did,it wasn't 4 very long ,but I didn't mind as long as I got it.Which in the first few months(literally) was at least once a night.After that,it gradually descended to about twice a week..........to sometimes once every week and a half to 2! In only 3 years!..I look better than I did(my appearance has actually improved in the last 6months).The more it goes down the less Iask 'cause Iknow I'll get pushed away or turned down.On top of being only 20,I'm a very sensual person.I find myself Mentally leaning towards other men(fantasizing,infatuation,almost to the point of self pleasure)..I've actually become emotionally invested in someone else the past year.All they did was act like theywere attracted to me(sexually and emotionally),open a few doors and pull out a few chairs andI fell hard 'cause I don't get

2006-10-28 22:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by Direktor 5

A 28 yr old man goes 2weeks without sleeping with his wife and when she comes on to him,say he doesn't feel like it because he's mad at her from earlier this day......would someone that age and perfect health reject sex after that long just because of a tif earlier that day?......Or is there foul play?

2006-10-28 21:45:42 · 46 answers · asked by Direktor 5

i know i did wrong with that married woman who i couldent stand her. but i knew i had calamidia. andave it to her in my state where i am from i never gave them her name i hated her husband that bad and she had.4. children and i really hated her. i was onley.17. she was in her.40,s. she was no more than a cheap whore.there in.w.va. and she never goes to a octor.she told me that , i just wanted her to leave me alone while i was doing mission work she wouldnt, so was that right on her part to keep bothering me by thinking i was in love with her.she is oldre than my mother, so one day in her home while her husband was gone it just happened there i almost laughted in her cheap face in her beedroom when we had sex there ,

2006-10-28 21:42:38 · 7 answers · asked by matthew v 3

the reason i say this is becuz he has looked at other women. and called his ex g/f but made up excuess about it. told me i need to lose weght and said something about my boobs he even wrote to girls on a chat line telling them whats up or saying they are hot. so what should i do

2006-10-28 21:18:16 · 12 answers · asked by yvonne c 1

i dont know if i love him or fear him.i just dont know what i feel anymore.i have been curious about meeting new people but everyone knows him and i dont want anyone talking.so i keep to my self. hes in prison, but i dont know if i want to be with him, or just leave.i stay because we have children and they love him and he loves them.but what would you do in a situation in wich you have no idea of what to feel?

2006-10-28 20:58:57 · 32 answers · asked by super girl 3

we have been married for over 22 years, she is taking medication for depression, kids are grown and out of the house. she does not think she should have to work at the love that it should just be there. she will not go to marrage councling, or read any self help books, we have deiced to live together, but she will do nothing to improve the marrage. she still wants kisses, greetings and goodbyes and good night, but just 3 short pecks, nothing intament. I am willing to do whatever it takes to fix the marrage, but she does not want to do anything, and can not give me a reason why, what do I do

2006-10-28 20:55:03 · 23 answers · asked by rick b 1

2006-10-28 20:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by FAITH 1

2006-10-28 20:50:06 · 21 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

do wives are shy to talk about their abusive doctor husband , and that paople will not believe her, is there any reports on such happening

2006-10-28 20:48:46 · 10 answers · asked by g-unit 1

Is it considered cheating if while i'm sleeping with my boyfriend,i'm thinking about my husband?

2006-10-28 20:41:25 · 30 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3

This is not meant to be a judgement on anyone's character, just after your thoughts

Why, when you know someone is married, would you have an affair with them? I don't understand why people choose to be with a married person when there are squillions of single folk out there.

If you were hoodwinked into thinking a man / woman was single and you discovered later on that was not the case - how could you respect your lover who has lied to you and is lying to someone else.

2006-10-28 20:35:24 · 14 answers · asked by LadyRebecca 6

I like moaning but shes very quiet and just bites her lip. Most of the time Im the one in the mood and she just goes along with it but not into it. Weve been married for a year and she was a virgin when we married.

2006-10-28 20:34:18 · 15 answers · asked by Fernando B 2

Should I take an Ambien or a Valium?

2006-10-28 20:31:21 · 10 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5

2006-10-28 20:22:26 · 5 answers · asked by g-unit 1

2006-10-28 20:20:47 · 26 answers · asked by Ned B 1

2006-10-28 20:16:41 · 4 answers · asked by g-unit 1

Friends before the marriage, friends after, etc. Is it no attracton or what?

2006-10-28 20:14:52 · 4 answers · asked by wondering 4

I mean, I had a tough day, so why am I still up asking and answering questions?

2006-10-28 20:14:15 · 10 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5

I am 24 and I just broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years. I love her to death and I want to marry her. She is perfect.

We were a great couple. But then she started to have a lot of other obligations like school (she's a junior in college) and her job to help pay for her school, and we started seeing less of each other and getting stressed. We had a fight back in January that was pretty bad and we never recovered from it. We had another really bad fight about 6 weeks ago where she hit me in the face and we both said nasty things. We broke up.

We've gone out since then and we're still close friends. It's just that I'm still in love with her. I love her more than anything. I'd do anything to have her back. She says that I'm still really important to her and that she loves me, but that she's not in love with me. She says our old 'chemistry' is gone.

I don't know what to do. I want her back so bad, my life is miserable w/out her. Is there anyway that chemistry will come bak

2006-10-28 20:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by m3brad2002 2

My spouse always seems to be leaving the house for various reasons to his parents, siblings, and friends' homes spending more time with them than spending time at home with his wife and children. So who should be of more importance?

2006-10-28 20:08:25 · 19 answers · asked by Jynxed 1