the reason i say this is becuz he has looked at other women. and called his ex g/f but made up excuess about it. told me i need to lose weght and said something about my boobs he even wrote to girls on a chat line telling them whats up or saying they are hot. so what should i do
2006-10-28 21:18:16 · 12 answers · asked by yvonne c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your kidding right? When your husband starts telling you to lose weight, ask him how much he weighs and then tell him your losing that much and show him the door. Why put up with crap like that? What happened to the man who loved you when he got you to marry him?
2006-10-28 21:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by nfgatcer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I echo each person right here. Your husband demands to be dedicated to YOU, he made vows, he demands to honor the dedication. If monogamy is main to you, you have got to unload him. Though - abnormal because it sounds, a few folks have open marriages and swing. I individually do not think on this, however it's performed. Now whilst speakme approximately the subject of affection.... you have got to ask your self if that is handiest an 'above the waist' affair he's having or each emotional/intellectual and bodily/sexual. Men just like the 'assignment'... and most commonly married guys lose interest whilst there is not any 'spark' within the dating. To him, perhaps jugging 2 ladies is the assignment he seeks. But simply considering he seeks this, doesn't suggest you have got to pass along side this both. Consult your center - ask your self if you're real glad. Trust demands to be there and also you have got to ask your self for those who wish to stick married or no longer. If your husband is having emotional problems, he demands to search aid - medication, and so forth. He can be a love/intercourse addict (there are 12 step systems for this). Bottom-line, he's DISRESPECTING YOU, your dating, your dedication and isn't being devoted to you. You have got to re-evaluate wherein you're at with him and begin making a few confident-professional-energetic efforts to get what you deserve and that's honesty and admire. If you shouldn't have both of the ones matters, even friendship is NOT a comfort prize. Take a few motion to do what makes YOU glad. If you wish monogamy, you have got to go away him. He's no longer supplying that to you. GOOD LUCK! Blessings to you!
2016-09-01 04:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by chautin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband was this inconsiderate & selfish. Tell him how he is making you feel. This is emotional abuse. After 15 yrs I realized I deserve better. He was spreading his seed all over the place. He told me he had a sex addiction problem . I never would have married him had he told me this years ago. Men like this do not know the meaning of love, let alone marriage.
2006-10-29 01:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can try to find a suitable time n ask him what had happened to him recently ? Y treat me differently . Let him answer u . If the answer is very sarcastic try to said out what u feel and what u want . whether to continue this marriage or . U can't just keep quiet and put it in your heart . u r the one who feeling bad . If for me i will give him some time answer my question.
Don't let him think he is right . Let him feel u will complain ...
2006-10-28 22:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Vv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, looking is normal. calling an ex is not exceptable and state that. if he comments on your boobs, give it back. ex..look at your hair loss..your gutt..and chat line..again not exceptable. do not take it, you have only 1 life, enjoy it. by the way, you already know what to do.
2006-10-28 21:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by youthere5456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he married you for the good times and bad,and now that you have gained weight and are not the barbie he wants he will cheat on you for it.If hes abuseing you mentally divorce him on mental cruelty and get half of all he has.
2006-10-28 21:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably just ask him directly whats up with all that.
2006-10-28 21:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Dohz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be frank to him! you should fight for your right, can't you see he's a jerk??? you'll never be happy with him...unless he will change... give him a lesson and let him feel how important you are!!!
2006-10-28 21:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stay if u like the emotion abuse
2006-10-28 21:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that
get someone new
2006-10-28 21:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly Bundy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋