Marriage & Divorce - 28 October 2006

2006-10-28 20:07:15 · 19 answers · asked by Hacker 3

My wife has been acting strangely lately. New clothes, working out and being fussy about her appearance.

She has been leaving the house at odd hours and staying gone for a long time for simple errands. when she returns she is distant and unattentive.

I also found motel receipts and phone numbers in her car. She said they must be a friend's.

I followed her to a motel on my motorcycle so she wouldn't see me. I hid behind my motorcycle and waited for her to leave the office. She went inside with a man she works with and didn't come out for several hours.

While I was waiting behind my motorcycle I noticed a small oil leak on my left fork seal. I need advise, is this something I can take care of or do I need to take it to a shop?

Thanks for any advice, I've been worried sick about this.

2006-10-28 19:59:35 · 22 answers · asked by Beavis Christ AM 6

She left in Feb and moved cross country. Things got really bad for a while and now we have been able to talk and she says that she loves me. But how do I know she won't leave again? This is the second time and this time we have a child together. I JUST WANT MY FAMILY BACK

2006-10-28 19:59:11 · 4 answers · asked by 3 4

When you first get involved with someone and start to get serious everything including sex is great. Once you get married why does it all change? I for one still want it to be like it was when we meet but he says things are different now. What do you do if you feel this way?

2006-10-28 19:46:30 · 8 answers · asked by 1wickedwitch 1

2006-10-28 19:41:47 · 3 answers · asked by boyet 2

2006-10-28 19:35:20 · 20 answers · asked by rightio 6

2006-10-28 19:34:52 · 17 answers · asked by yvonne c 1

I have been thru the ringer this year, and I will not look back at it fondly. I am feeling wicked, and want to act on those feelings. How can I hold them back?

2006-10-28 19:30:25 · 24 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5

About Husband going to bar with female co-worker and isn't home after 4 hours

2006-10-28 19:27:29 · 1 answers · asked by Teenie 7

I have a daughter, and a daughter-inlaw that seem to want to throw thier marriges out the door, and they can't give an exceptiable answer, as to why. considering all of the ramifications of there actions, you would think they could come up with a better excuse other than, I don't feel in love anymore.

2006-10-28 19:26:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

reply asap i am sleepy and i work tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-28 19:16:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so if your married to someone with a.d.d and there suicidal would you have a problem with it

2006-10-28 19:16:13 · 8 answers · asked by eclipse3319 2

when a boy fall on love , what are the things that the girl wants?

2006-10-28 19:06:33 · 20 answers · asked by madhan r 1

My wife was really before marriage, in the bed room sheis very H.t. During intercourse she is making noises(Moaning), But i hate to hare such noises. i dont make any noise when i am into it but she will moan, askng for more and more, i cant concentrate when she moan, i am so much worried so i used to cover her mouth with my hand, is she good wife? i dont want let others to know during sex if she moan like this others will hear i am living with my parents and brothers. Everything is good in her, behave nicely to everyone but in the bed rooom she is like a S...ut. even if i ask for stop making such noises for some mints she will control then again she will start.... what i have to do?

2006-10-28 18:58:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-28 18:51:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He was seen eating out with another woman in the same town we live in.

2006-10-28 18:47:23 · 24 answers · asked by funnyface 1

I am 28 years old and have been married to my husband for almost four years (our anniversary is next month). Our relationship has been rocky to say the least for about two years now, but recently it has gotten much worse.

We fight constantly and he calls me some pretty awful names. The other night, we were having one of these arguments (it was because I didn't tell him exactly what he wanted me to tell him the way he wanted me to tell him) and he hit me. Not in the face, but in the ankle and then in the leg four or five times. After this he got up and left for a little while. When he came back, he said he was sorry and that he knew he was wrong and that he needed my helped to keep him from losing his temper like that. I told him he needed professionaly help, but he refuses.

I guess what I am asking is, what should I do? Should I stay or should I take my little boy and leave?

2006-10-28 18:45:30 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a recently married man, got married 4 months back. During intercourse my wife is moaning a lot, i am nervous whether she is having any pain when i ask her she is saying No it was really nice... why my wife is making sounds like this? is there any physcial problem, why does she moan? Serious answers Please.

2006-10-28 18:40:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is m 3rd question tonight.. about my husband and him cheating baout a year ago.. he told me a few months ago and cut off all comtact w/ the girl and his cousin but last weeken he was drinking and wnated to know what his cuz had been up to so he tricke me into going up there. when i asked him what happened he said he doens't rember he was truck i think that is bull **** he does rember and doens't want to tell me .. but tonight i agreed to lethimgo to his cousins provided he would be homw at 12:30 it's now 1:30 should i be trusting my gut feeling when i thinkhe has cheated again or give him the benifit of the doubt and hope he lost track of time

2006-10-28 18:39:37 · 17 answers · asked by trblmmmy 2

i love my 7 yr old son more than anything and will tell you i feel a great deal of guilt over divorcing his mom.when i left i gave them everything the house,car,bank accounts...i just took my clothes.i also pay child support and daycare costs. because of all this i have in the last 4 yrs ran into some debt(about 30k) My gf(were engaged) live together and split the household bills.i make more than she does but take home less because of child support she has no chilldren.she also has a large amount of money in the bank and i had asked her if she could help me out with my debt after all we are getting married soon and would like to be out of debt.long story short she said no and basicly said i should have thought about it before i gave my ex everything.i don't know what to think now.do you think she is selfish in not helping me out its not like a have a drug problem and ran into debt its all from me trying to do the right thing for my son.

2006-10-28 18:37:34 · 15 answers · asked by tommyboy5671 1

2006-10-28 18:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by AKILAH T 2

my bf is not a virgin but I dont know If he wan't a B*l*O*W job I wana try to see so can I try or a my to young?

2006-10-28 18:09:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am contemplating a divorce because I am in a very unhappy marriage. It is not abusive, just terribly empty. I want more for more life. Even if it is being without someone. I can't take being married to someone I do not love. But....I have children....I don't want to hurt them by seperating from their Dad. Of course both of us would still be in their lives. We both love them. But everyone says divorce is terrible on kids. So what do you think from your perspective as kids whose parents may be together and unhappy or who have chose to seperate?

2006-10-28 17:58:13 · 13 answers · asked by Sleepless in Seattle 2

or it doesnt matter? Who should bring more income into the household? does it matter who brings more or who brings a little less. i think there is more into a marriage than who brings the more income into the home as long as you both are financially stable and both bring money home??

2006-10-28 17:44:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have known each other only for a few days, but I have made up my mind to ask her to marry me. Here's the plan: I have a house under construction and it's nearing completion. I haven't told her anything about the house. I am thinking of taking her to the house, have her open the front door, show her around, ask her if I can hold her hand and propose.

Ques:

1. It will be around the middle of December that I'll be taking her to the place. Is 2 months of knowing each other a little too early?
2. I went through a lot of difficulties during the process of house construction... loan approval, land acquisition, etc, and I didnt borrow a single penny from my Dad or my friends. I cut down on my personal expenses, lived on a strict budget, and it has finally paid off. I wish to share this with her when I am showing her around the house because I want her to know. Will it sound like I am bragging or is it alright?
3. Should I keep the ring box closed or open when giving it to her.

2006-10-28 17:42:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got preg. by mistake 1 yr ago. when i told my bf of 2yrs about this he was very calm and i was the one very upset.i was surprised he took it so well then i found out why.he had no plans on me keeping the baby.he asked me when i got home what i wanted to do about it and i told him i wanted to keep it.he then went into all the reasons he did not want this child all which were just excuses.i was really upset with this and took a few days to decide what i would do. all this time he keep asking what i was going to do and would not let up.when i told him i was going to terminate the preg. in tears he almost seemed happy and jumped up and said i'll take you.what makes this so hard is we are not poor teens or he is not some dead beat dad.he has a child from a prev. marrage that he loves to death and wants to be with every chance he gets.its so hard for me even a yr later to see him look at his son with so much love and joy and think he felt nothing about the child he made me terminate.

2006-10-28 17:41:52 · 31 answers · asked by debmorroy 1

what should i say to him on monday

2006-10-28 17:38:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a married male with kids and a great wife, except my sex life is dismal at best. I don't want a divorce and don't want to destroy my marriage. I want to know what I need to do, if there is anything I can do, to suppress my unfulfilled sex drive. Is there a medication I can take? Is there anything I can do to stop the constant cycle of anticipation of sex and denial? Please help, its driving me crazy!

2006-10-28 17:28:11 · 13 answers · asked by want to stay married 1

2006-10-28 17:26:27 · 14 answers · asked by lilmrsgracefulone 2

All my husband does is pay the video game or get on here and look at porn or mess around with the games on here. Therefore, I get on the computer more to try and show him how it feels. He hardly ever spends anytime with me. It seems like all I am is a bedwarmer and someone to have sex with. What should I do? I have even tried seducing him and he pushes me away or tell me later or hang on a sec. He stays up until all hours of the night which makes it hard because I have issues with sleeping without him. When he finally does roll into bed he either wants sex or goes right to sleep. I just don't know what to do anymore.

2006-10-28 17:26:22 · 19 answers · asked by babygurltexas 1