2006-10-28 18:51:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so be a responsible adult and do something to fix the problem ,are you bored ,live things up ,spend more time with the family doing things you enjoy ,if all fails then you could try to get custody of your boys but that involves still having a home life so too bad if you walk out your wife will most likely remarry and some maybe nice man will maybe be a better father than you..
2006-10-28 19:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r you sick of home life.? Im sure you new it would be a roller coaster ride at some point. Dont be sick now, Man-up and make the best of it . Theres no point in you being there for you're kids if your miserable., Cause then your defeating the purpose. you'd be making them miserable too. Add some spice and zizzle to your relationship and then maybe things would brighten up cause once you do that, your wife will want to keep that spice. then have a day where you give her a break and just you and youre kids spend time together, then have a seperate day for the whole family. things will work out dont let youre kids be part of some statistic. And worse yet no other man can love your kids more than you. and also remember to take time for yourself as well. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2006-10-29 01:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by free2lovebadboyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If being sick of your home life is causing problems around the house that your kids are subject to, then the best thing to do is leave. Your kids are innocent of your home life problems, there not to be blamed or dragged into any problems regarding your relationship. But if mommy and daddy are not happy they pick up on all that. If leaving is not an option....then change. There is nothing more constant then change. Change something!!! Tell your partner that your not completely happy....list the reasons without being insulting or degrading or making everything her fault. If your being cheated on then there is no excuse and no exceptions. But if your just unhappy cuz of the hours you gotta work to support your family, having a hard time making ends meet, or just bored with it all then you gotta change something. It'd funny....we date, get married and have fun with it all.....we bring kids into this world and expect things to remain the same it just doesn't work that way. And yes the alternative is leaving, paying child support, and taking the chance of some one else raising your kids. Think carefully and reasonably .
2006-10-29 10:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the what you have stated above, it sounds like you should leave as you are setting a bad example and poisoing your son's view on good relationships and having good ones of their own in the future. They would be better off having an "idiot" that wants to be part of the family than someone who is so egocentric and selfish to even say the only reason he is staying is because he doesn't want someone else raising his kids because their universe will no longer revolve around you.
2006-10-29 08:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two are three boys,so why are you so sick of your home life-your kids should be your life-when my kids were small I did not see myself as a home body,because every time i got home my life was waiting for me and they were the greatest joy of my life-when the time is right GOD will give you a mate if that is what you are looking for.there are so many things that you can do with your children that will make you and them happy (try some of them) did you ever take time to ask them what they would like to do-all of you together
2006-10-29 01:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by brown sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's not your "home life" you are sick of but your "idiot husband."
Since you offer absolutely no information or specifics, then it impossible to offer any insight into what is going on.
Have you told him - honestly - how you feel about him and the future of your relationship? He'd be shocked to know what you think, wouldn't he - and that means you are already living a lie to him by faking it every second of every day and not telling him what's going on in your head.
Stop faking, grow a backbone, and tell him what you think and accept the consequences like a grown up.
2006-10-29 01:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there for the kids. It is almost always possible to fix the home life if both parties want to. If not, just be friendly and polite and wait until your sons are older and move on. You owe them that.
2006-10-29 01:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck it up and raise your kid ya big wuss
2006-10-29 07:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you so sick of it?
2006-10-29 01:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋