should i be trusting my gut feeling on this or am i just thinking about past actions (cheated on)?

Question

this is m 3rd question tonight.. about my husband and him cheating baout a year ago.. he told me a few months ago and cut off all comtact w/ the girl and his cousin but last weeken he was drinking and wnated to know what his cuz had been up to so he tricke me into going up there. when i asked him what happened he said he doens't rember he was truck i think that is bull **** he does rember and doens't want to tell me .. but tonight i agreed to lethimgo to his cousins provided he would be homw at 12:30 it's now 1:30 should i be trusting my gut feeling when i thinkhe has cheated again or give him the benifit of the doubt and hope he lost track of time

Answer 1

Sorry but you are being played. Quit looking at his behavior and examine yourself as to why this relationship is OK for you. You need to find some self-esteem and see that you are worth more than the way he is treating you. Good luck to you!

Answer 2

Once a cheater always a cheater. Now you don't trust him. One of the most important parts of a marriage is trust and you've lost that, now it's time you lose him. You can't live with the constant questions of: where, what, with whom. It's not a gut feeling your being tapped on the shoulder of a higher power and He's saying: " HELLLLLLOOOOOO"

Answer 3

I'd Doubt giving him the benefit! SPOTS-Of-A- LEOPARD! Do you really want to risk getting a disease? You're never going to be able to completely trust him again...are you? His cheating is always going to be in the back of your mind. BUT...there's women out there that manage to deal, but I wouldn't! Good Luck!

Answer 4

i imagine the in basic terms way of confronting him is to inform him precisely what you wrote on the following. that you're achieved at the same time with his lies, you comprehend the actuality and how a lot it sickens you that he might want to misinform you once you've all the evidence correct in the front of you, not forgetting that he chosen to swear on peoples lives. Explaining to him that a human being that would want to lie like that obviously has no regret, no straightforward emotions with reference to the guy to which they did it too otherwise he would have got here forth at the same time with his indiscretions a lot earlier to the time it took that you'll stumble for the era of them. you'll not be able to believe him and also you don't want someone who's clearly not correct for you. that you deserve more effective perfect and would have more effective perfect. What is going round comes round, and he might want to keep in mind that.

Answer 5

You don't really have any way of knowing if he's cheating or not, but he's definitely disrespecting you in many other ways. I'd advise looking long and hard at the relationship and making some serious decisions.

Answer 6

You are going to have to examine your feeling for your husband and see if you will be able to trust him again. If not then you will need to find some one who you will trust and one who will never give you a reason not to trust him.

Answer 7

You 2 sound very young and the cousin is the agitator. Ask your self if you want to keep hurting like this.

Answer 8

hey that gut feeling well its your intuition working for you,an woman its usually way stronger then a man an its because your ability to have children an this instinct you develop more after 2..
well its a theory i hope it answers your question,,..

Answer 9

It sounds like you get told alot of stories. And get broken promises.

Once a man usually cheats, he continues doing so, unless he's a man who cares deeply for his family, and goes to get help ( counseling)

I;m sorry you have to hurt like this.

Answer 10

let's just hope he lost track of time. you know men an when they get into the party...or men when they talk about work , cars an such..they do loose track of time. i wish you well on this an hope he is just caught up in time.