I think my wife is cheating on me. Need advice.?

Question

My wife has been acting strangely lately. New clothes, working out and being fussy about her appearance.

She has been leaving the house at odd hours and staying gone for a long time for simple errands. when she returns she is distant and unattentive.

I also found motel receipts and phone numbers in her car. She said they must be a friend's.

I followed her to a motel on my motorcycle so she wouldn't see me. I hid behind my motorcycle and waited for her to leave the office. She went inside with a man she works with and didn't come out for several hours.

While I was waiting behind my motorcycle I noticed a small oil leak on my left fork seal. I need advise, is this something I can take care of or do I need to take it to a shop?

Thanks for any advice, I've been worried sick about this.

Answer 1

yo man, my father's got an ultimate set of tools. I CAN FIX IT.

Answer 2

I think it Ned's to be handled by a professional. A good seal is very important and if it's not done right it can damage your engine and lead to catastrophic engine failure. This could lead to you being killed in an accident and who would be there to take care of your wife who obviously needs you now more then ever.
She's a busy woman and a good baby sitter is so hard to find these day's.

Answer 3

Forget the cheating wife, she's not worth your time. However, that left fork seal needs attention. Take care of the bike she will always be faithful and will bring much satisfaction and happiness.

Answer 4

Only you know if you’re capable of fixing that oil leak. If you have doubts about your ability, a professional may be required.

Too bad about the wife. She’s definitely having some fun on the side.

Answer 5

Hmmmm....this sounds weird. If this really happened, I think you KNOW (not think) she is cheating unless there's an iron clad excuse for going to the motel for several hours.Take your evidence and approach her with it if you want to get this resolved. Sounds to me like she is having an affair. Some husbands don't care if their wife is bringing in a good salary and sharing it with them.

Answer 6

Worried sick about the bike or the woman? As far as the woman goes try taking pictures next time she goes out and you follow her then ask for an explination

Answer 7

well she didnt go into the motel room to read . take there pictures with a camara, that is self dated on the pictures going in as well comming out . as for the bike that is a oil seal it takes about.5. minutes to replace it ....yes she is cheating on you and if you dont belive your ow n eyes then you have problems. in my opion?

Answer 8

Tell her of your insecurities of the relationship and ask her if she wishes to rekindle the situation. If she shows no signs of effort towards a change then you will know in your heart you did all you could do. If things do change then it worked out to your advantage. Good Luck.

Answer 9

Im confused ,did she stay in her work office or the hotel room ,and are you worried about your wife or your motor bike?
If its the hotel room then you dont think she is cheating you know it !! .If she was staying in her work office then you should just talk to her .as for your bike ,take it to the shop

Answer 10

You are worried more about an oil leak than a cheating wife?
Lord have mercy!

Answer 11

The bike or your wife?

Wife, I don't think you need anyone to tell you she is cheating. Snap a couple pictures, take her to court and take her for everything she s got, get your bike fixed and ride off into the sunset.