Marriage & Divorce - 28 October 2006

She has no idea how I feel. But I actually look forward to going to the doctor! She's not the model type. I just dont know what it is about her. Maybe I'm having a midlife crisis. I know she sees me as a patient and she sees men and women all day long BUT

2006-10-28 12:21:21 · 17 answers · asked by Paul V 1

his porn addiction. Yesterday morning the radio came on (a Christian station) & the host was interviewing 2 women whose husbands were porn addicts! After the women recounted their stories (both divorced), the show mentioned books and a website to help. This can't be a coincidence. God is trying to tell me something. But what is it? What would you think?

2006-10-28 12:20:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been reading responses from responders: 'leave him, walk out, gal just leave him, what the heck are u still doing in that marriage!!'
I acknowledge that a number of marriages are tough, very abusive and life threatening sometimes but it is my opinion that we are just too quick to take this route when we have disagreements with our spouses over a long period.
What has caused this enormous shift in thinking from back then when it was 'impossible route' to take unless you were in an 'extremely' abusive marriage?

2006-10-28 12:09:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf lied about getting his car out the shop because it was stolen
and claimed he was taking a $25 dollar cab to my house. And one morning he was talking about taking a cab back home and he wanted me to walk him to the where he had to go, but I couldn't because I had to be at work. As I am walking to the bus I see his car parked and I was pissed ! When I confronted him later on that day he said it was a joke and he thought it was funny. So I cursed him out and hung up on him. I haven't heard from him in 3 days ! I am supposed to be marrying this man and he's lying about bullsh*t !! What is a girl supposed to do ???

2006-10-28 12:01:40 · 25 answers · asked by SexyB 2

I am so lonley inside. I got divorced a year ago and I don't know how to move on. I just work and go home. Does anyone feel like me out there? What do you do to make yourself feel better? I am going to church tomorrow.

2006-10-28 12:00:05 · 14 answers · asked by Dori 2

My parents are fighting like crazy!And now they are counting it as an end of there marrige!What can i do to help save them from getting a Divorce?

2006-10-28 11:55:52 · 16 answers · asked by Alyssa 1

Im a landed immigrant from another country and I had a breakdown of marriage. I would like to sponsor my children including their father. Is that still possible?

2006-10-28 11:53:20 · 6 answers · asked by lor0171 1

I split up with my husband over a month ago and we are still living in the same house as he refuses to leave until it is sold. We still have another of couple of weeks work until the house is ready to put on the market, and depending on how long it's on the market for, it could be several months until we actually part ways.
Our daughter is five and has already seen more than she should, in terms of nastiness to me from my husband, despite my best efforts. She is a happy and confident little girl who knows she is loved by everyone she meets and although I know I can't avoid the divorce hurting her, I am desperate to ensure I do my absolute best to help get her through it.
First of all, I don't know whether it would be best to tell her sooner, so she can get used to the idea, or when we put the house on the market. What do you think? And I just don't know how I'm going to tell her, any useful advice on breaking the news?
Thanks

2006-10-28 11:51:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-28 11:41:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a 30sh houswife married 14 years to controling, cheating husband.We dont talk ,stay in the same rooms, eat together, or go out -yet he feels we should stay for the children...

2006-10-28 11:41:13 · 32 answers · asked by t m 1

If you really want to move out but don't have the money, what should you do?

2006-10-28 11:39:30 · 2 answers · asked by Ade 6

2006-10-28 11:37:48 · 3 answers · asked by missdzj 1

2006-10-28 11:30:37 · 3 answers · asked by crimea 1 1

support since he left me and the state is getting $50.00 every pay check but my daughter and I see none of that because He is 12 +months behind! Can he take her from me sinc I and My family are her only support?

2006-10-28 11:29:34 · 7 answers · asked by Audrey W 2

something tells me he's preparing to do the same thing. he's a sneaky little devil, always picking fights to get out of the house. he's always doing mean little things to me, basically sending me through emotional hell. any advice.

2006-10-28 11:22:05 · 31 answers · asked by peggy 2

2006-10-28 11:18:07 · 7 answers · asked by Keyla 1

We have been married 16 years, 3 kids. I've had a very low sex drive through out our marraige, so I feel as I am to blame for driving him away. For the past month I have been off all birth control (he got fixed) and have found a sex drive that I never has before. I actually think aabout sex and want it. This is a new feeling for me. Is it to little too late? What should I do? I really do not want to have our family broken up.

2006-10-28 11:09:25 · 13 answers · asked by suzyq 1

My husband works for a car dealership. He comes home at night and dumps pieces of paper out of his pockets in piles all over the house. When I throw out papers he gets mad at me and tells me they were important. If they were that important shouldn't they be organized and not in crumpled up piles? I am tired of looking at his stupid piles of papers and not knowing what to do with them. What would you do? While you are at it maybe you can tell me how to get him to put his dirty dishes in the sink and his dirty clothes in the laundry room. I am tired of looking at his dirty socks all of the time! Help!

2006-10-28 11:08:47 · 19 answers · asked by Jules 3

my brother has this on tape he as taken it to the police and they dont want to know what else can he do

2006-10-28 11:06:41 · 17 answers · asked by lisa h 2

i wake up every morning wanting to make love,but my wife isnt in the mood.any other time is ok with her,and i seem to do my best work in the a.m. seems a shame to let it go to waste.anything i can do to make her more intimate in the morning?besides waking her earlier lol

2006-10-28 11:05:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother has a best friend she is great and they known eachother for a long time ... now her husband called my mom like a week ago to tell here that he has feeling for my mom ... now my mom doesn’t know what to do. She says that she should not say anything cause probably the marriage will end or her friend would hate my her what do you people think.

2006-10-28 11:01:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-28 11:00:58 · 16 answers · asked by pincessconfused 1

posed a question about telling the wifes sister earlier. thanks for the responses - i had pondered over all the things that have been said. asked wife about more sex - she doesnt want any - had sex with her 5 times over past 4 years. discussed it with her, asked her if there was a problem - says she is too tired or i dont find the right moment - tried everything - she says she loves me and i believe her - i love her and my kids. dont want a devorce.

*told my wifes sister today that i liked her and have done for a while - said she was shocked but was ok with this - she did not want to take things further as she did not want her sister hurt and i respect that. asked her not to tell my wife and she agreed - what should i do now!! my wife wont give it up and i dont want to seek anyone else!

2006-10-28 10:51:25 · 19 answers · asked by Jimmy P 1

These are all his properties. i know he is not good for me, i know it deep down in my heart. i have tried hard to save my marriage but i think i wont be able to do that for long. I'm American and he is asian. I'm proud to be an american, i cant help it ;-) I guess he is jealous of the fact that i'm USA citizen. I dont know how could i be so trapped by his personality, whenever i try that i should leave him; something stops me. may be i can't get over the fact that i was in love with him. I loved him wholeheartedly. He has totally shattered my personality. I stress and stress. i 'm trying to be strong and thats why i'm here. i think i need to make lot of friends so i can feel better. i need to be around people. I'm all alone. I'm in uk right bz he is a student here. so it is kind of hard to get a job here as a foreigner. but i'm gona give it the last shot to this relationship and if it doesnt change, i have to move on. i already feel the sick feeling inside of me. hope you understand

2006-10-28 10:50:44 · 9 answers · asked by mind 1

do you think people in hollywood take the value out of being married. by always gettin devorced and gettin married again and again and again

2006-10-28 10:42:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because there worth it! lol

2006-10-28 10:39:58 · 10 answers · asked by Silana S 1

my husband is always good around other people like his friends, relatives, parents and colleague. But he is never good with me. He takes care of other people besides me. No one can say that he is bad person bz he always treats everyone right besides me. If he has to spend money on me; he sometimes minds it. For example, whenever we for shopping he has dilemma on everythin i buy; he says i dont know how to buy the right stuff. I really feel bad when he does that, i feel like a coward. But he can spend lots of money on his friends or relatives. he cares so much for his parents and siblings. he treats me like an outsider. he has never given me anything. i married him out of good intensions. why does he treat me so differently? is that he hates me or he has no place for me in his heart. He has also a problem with me putting on the make up. he says i should not wear make up and sometimes he even picks on the way i dress up. it makes me crazy. he thinks that what he says is right. help me pl

2006-10-28 10:22:02 · 37 answers · asked by mind 1

How long have you gone with out being the master of?
you domain. when you were not in a relationship

2006-10-28 10:19:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has to get false teeth how would you feel? Hubby is 31 and wife is 28. Both upper and lower.

2006-10-28 10:16:34 · 19 answers · asked by tishniaeq069696 3

One of the primary aims of marriage is to have sex at anytime one wants it where possible. Then how can a woman cliam that the husband raped her? Also, how can a man claim that her wife raped her?

2006-10-28 10:14:23 · 22 answers · asked by Nyatonga J 1