My bf lied about getting his car out the shop because it was stolen
and claimed he was taking a $25 dollar cab to my house. And one morning he was talking about taking a cab back home and he wanted me to walk him to the where he had to go, but I couldn't because I had to be at work. As I am walking to the bus I see his car parked and I was pissed ! When I confronted him later on that day he said it was a joke and he thought it was funny. So I cursed him out and hung up on him. I haven't heard from him in 3 days ! I am supposed to be marrying this man and he's lying about bullsh*t !! What is a girl supposed to do ???
2006-10-28 12:01:40 · 25 answers · asked by SexyB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like the red flags are starting to reveal themselves to you. Be careful with this guy it also sounds like he may have something or someone he's hiding. If he hasn't called in 3 days that would tell me that he's not very serious about this relationship. If he hasn't called in a week's time. I would change my telephone number and move on. It may be God's way of protecting you from a jerk. And why are you riding the bus when he has a car? He should be taking you to work and picking you up. Take all of this as a warning. A real man would not have you on a bus. Come on, you deserve more than this.
2006-10-28 12:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It was only a 25 dollar cab ride, it's not like he cheated on you or stole your moms purse or anything. maybe you should be able to take a joke and try and trust your bf/fiance/husband... not really too sure, if you haven't heard from him in the next 4 days, I'm pretty sure that its over and that he thinks your a total hot headed lady. Get your facts straight before asking a question.
2006-10-28 12:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell this loser that you were just kidding about marrying him and move on and find a real man that will appreciate you for you and that isnt a joke. Cause there is no telling what else this guy will find funny and joke with you about. Not a real good scenario here, so break it off and find yourself a real man
2006-10-28 12:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband lies to me about stupid stuff sometimes. I know when he's lying but I don't usually confront him because the lies aren't big. They are usually something stupid that just doesn't matter. I just ignore it and move on. Now, if he is lying to me about money or some other major issue then he's in trouble. He did lie about money a couple times but after realizing that I knew him better then he thought I did he quit. He may be an occasional liar and he's even a bit messy but he doesn't hit me or cheat on me. He works and he allows me to stay home and raise our children. He just bought me a brand new S.U.V. too. So, despite his flaws, I love him. Plus, I'm not perfect. He loves me despite my flaws too. We complete each other.
2006-10-28 12:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honey, if he's already lying about litlle things, I personally wouldn't trust him as far as i could throw him.I'm married with two children and belive once you marry the man he totally changes.Don't ever let your guard down.
2006-10-28 12:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by amy h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry a guy who lies abut bullsh*t. Because you never know what else he's lying about.
2006-10-28 12:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to tell you what to do!
but i will tell you that this is just the beginning! trust me. i gave my husband to be the chance to come clean about every thing and anything before we got married. he chose not to and because of it, well..... we will save that for another day!!
2006-10-28 12:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't laugh, it was no joke.
He lied in a way that was manipulative. Marry him if you'd like a lifetime of being jerked around.
2006-10-28 12:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHILL...he isn't calling u becasue u cursed.....your going a little to fast w/ marriag but try to work things out! Over a car is a stupid thing to get mad about
_good luck
2006-10-28 12:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by Volleyballqueen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
rethink about getting married first. Sounds like he is still a boy and not a man.
2006-10-28 12:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋