My parents are fighting like crazy!And now they are counting it as an end of there marrige!What can i do to help save them from getting a Divorce?
2006-10-28 11:55:52 · 16 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes we cant solve all the problems in the world no matter how much or what we do or like. In this case divorce as bad as it is may be the best solution for everyone involved including you before something else happens. Time changes all of us and probably here time changed your parents from the loving couple they once were into what theyve become. There is NO way to blame yourself for what is about to happen. Youve done nothing wrong. Adults sometimes just grow apart, get on each others nerves and this happens but it isnt your fault. As hard as it will be the best thing you can do is to show each of them that you still love them both equally, that you will be there for them always, will tyr to go along with whatever they decide. Divorce is hard for kids but it isnt any easier for your parents too. You can try and save it but then they will be staying together for you and that never works in the long run as the stress of being together itself will tear them apart and worse fighting will occur. But try and get them to stay as friends the best they can as this will definitely make things easier. Good Luck
2006-10-28 12:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i remember when my parents got a divorce and i kept saying that it was my fault when really it wasn't...all you can do is just be their for the both of them and try to make the good times role...like for instance ask a question like how did they meet...and it will be like a stroll down memory lane for the both of them. then at least their minds will be off of the whole divorce thing...but otherwise you can't do anything except pray that divorce isn't the fate...but if it does happen your parents will always love u know matter what...
hope my answer helps,
bye
2006-10-28 12:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by @$4!33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like your chances, adults are crazy. They think they know everything but they act nuts and do all this crazy kind of stuff. Suggest counselling but if they say no, just find someone you can talk to about it, and do not take sides with your parents. Someone that can help is Youthline. If you have one in your country give them a call.
2006-10-28 12:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you can't do anything.Time has taken it's course and they have probally tried to work things out.People change as do the times.I'm sorry to hear about this.My parents are divorced as well.But they get along.I am an adult now and have children of my own.My parents get along better now then when they were married.Everything will turn out fine.I promise.I've been through it too.
2006-10-28 12:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by amy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was young my parents fought a lot and got divorced.The only thing that helped was not to listen & that it was their buisness, not mine. If they got divoriced I knew it wasn't the end of the world. Life was much better w/ out the fighting and it was nice because there wasn't tension between everyone.
let them fugure things out for themselves. They will decided what is best for the family.
2006-10-28 12:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kacy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the honest truth you cant stop them from getting a divorce you just have to know that some people grow apart and no matter how you might want to change that you never will just let your parents be maybe they will be much happier apart and maybe a little apart will do them some good
2006-10-28 12:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by mija~chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was a kid my parents fought, it was horrible for me and my brother, they got separated. i am not sure how they worked things out, but it was something only they could do on their own. they ended up getting back together.
the only thing you should worry about is yourself, if you need help dealing with this find someone you can trust to talk about it. i wish i had
2006-10-28 12:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel for you girl............but better to see them apart and happy than together and miserable [and making everyone else upset too]. wish there way a magic wand but there isnt. All you can do is stay strong for both of them. wish you luck girl!
2006-10-29 01:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by Bluff Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to remember this is between them, and not you. Now, you can talk to them and ask them for YOUR sake, please try counseling. BUT if they don't, just do not get into the middle of it or take sides. Trust me from experience.
2006-10-28 11:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't stop them from getting a divorce... my parents are divorced and they are a ton happier and it was definately they right choice for them
2006-10-28 12:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋