I like moaning but shes very quiet and just bites her lip. Most of the time Im the one in the mood and she just goes along with it but not into it. Weve been married for a year and she was a virgin when we married.
2006-10-28 20:34:18 · 15 answers · asked by Fernando B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her what she likes. Sexual communication is very important. Sex starts in the mind. Maybe she doesn't know that its okay for her to be enjoying sex or that it is possible for her to enjoy it. Poor girl. Tell her to tell you if she likes something that you do. Like if you kiss her breasts or her lower back etc and she likes it she should tell you. This way you will get to know how to turn her on. Foreplay so under rated but so important. Kiss her for twenty minutes just kiss nothing else the longer you kiss someone who likes you the more chance you have of sex. Then kiss all the little zones that make us girls unable to think straight like the eyelids, the ears, and the shoulders lower back neck etc.Do that for about twenty min too. Then start on the most obvious erogenous zones touching and kissing her inner thigh area, the neck, the breasts and nipples, and the perineum and Virgina paying special attention to her clitoris. Stroking, caressing and massaging of erogenous zones can be fun for you both.Tell her what you like while you are at it. Then after all that its time for actual sex. Make sure you let her know that you think she has a beautiful sexy body that turns you on. If you don't know where these spots are you can find diagrams on the Internet.
2006-10-28 21:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's too new to moan and get crazy in bed that is not something that comes naturally to most women. It is something that comes with experience and confidence. She might very well be enjoying herself but be too shy to make express it outwardly. If you want to get her to open up you need to be creative. Get exerimental, the more confident you are and the more you express to her that you like the way she makes you feel the more confident she will become. And for gods sake ask her about it. Ask he if she likes what you are doing and ask her to show you what pleases her, she may not know yet what exactly it is she likes but if she knows you are open to finding out she will likely tell you when you do something that feels great. Every woman is built different we are like puzzles and you just have to figure her out. The fact that she was a virgin indicates that you might have to help her figure it out too.
2006-10-28 20:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by jnp3577 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably still hasn't loosened up enough to enjoy the sex to its fullest. you need to take some time to let her learn her body with you. instead of jumping into intercourse, try a night just for her. make it all about romance and making her night awesome..even if you don't climax. the more she loosens up the better she will feel about sex and the more noise she can make.
however, she may just be quiet. or she may not know that you enjoy hearing her. tell her...let her know what turns you on. and you may be pleasantly surprised by the results.
2006-10-28 20:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just a lousy lover and she doesn't know any better so she can't tell you why sex with you is like house chores; just something that needs to be done.
Read some sex ed books together; you know, like the joy of sex type of books and get those educational videos available in Playboy or Penthouse (I"m talking education; not porn).
2006-10-28 20:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is painful to her for some reason.Why don't you just ask her what she likes or what you are doing wrong,I would say that is the best way to get a truthful answer to your question.When she does answer try to be understanding.It could be she is not happy with something you are doing or not doing and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.Just ask her.
2006-10-28 20:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by wndrng47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.......my wife also does not moan and has never complained......some moan and some express in other ways.....both of you are still in initial stage in sex life........you will know as the days pass by....
2006-10-28 20:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by Electric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to treat her special through out the day and really mean it, not just when you are horney. Take her out for dinner, clean the tub, or whatever, .......do things to make her life easier. And she will want to make you happy in more ways than one.
2006-10-28 20:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by Dianne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's not having a good time at all. Maybe its your method.
2006-10-28 20:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by desertskieswoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u know she doesnt like it - talk to her about it. change ur technique, try different things. be unselfish - its not all about u getting ur rocks off.
2006-10-28 20:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by bettie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she drops her nail file when she has an orgasm.
2006-10-28 23:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋