A 28 yr old man goes 2weeks without sleeping with his wife and when she comes on to him,say he doesn't feel like it because he's mad at her from earlier this day......would someone that age and perfect health reject sex after that long just because of a tif earlier that day?......Or is there foul play?
2006-10-28 21:45:42 · 46 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go with your gut feeling. There have been signs, you have probably been dimissing them. Think. It would also help to talk to him, really talk to see what is going on with him. In my case my ex husband was making booty calls with someone else. That was why he was tired when he came home. He always tried to blame me for not being intimate.
2006-10-29 01:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just don't have much of a sex drive, but if he is 28 and not using drugs then he should be wanting sex more often. Also it depends on how big the argument was and how it ended.
On the other hand around 40% of men cheat or will cheat on their spouses. So it is definately a possiblity. The truth is he may or may not be faithful to you and the only way to find out is to do a little spying but don't tell him you suspect anything and act normal.
2006-10-28 21:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either the worlds biggest ******** or he's up to no good which makes him one of the worlds biggest a holes. No healthy normal male will pass up sex at the age of 28 because of an earlier tif. That's what women do!
2006-10-28 21:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by OU812 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 44 and I want sex every day with my wife. She's really good looking though, so that plays a part. Anyway, if he's 28 and you're good looking and he doesn't want it daily, something is definitely wrong. He's either cheating on you or YOU ARE A COMPLETE B I T C H. Sorry, but a complete B I T C H can ruin just about anything.
If you're being good to him and he doesn't want you then he is either cheating, feeling really guilty about something or you're not being honest with yourself.
2006-10-28 21:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men can hold out on not having sex for a considerable amount of time, if they're really mad at something. Its best to communicate, resolve matters and then continue with a healthy sex life. Just because someone is not wanting sex, it doesnt' mean they're having an affair with someone else.
2006-10-28 21:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where matters of the heart are concerned there are no answers. It's just an automatic thing for our hearts to develope feeling for one or another person. Could the senerio you stated be true, yes of course, or could there be foul play, again yes. It depends on his mental condition e.g. stress, his libido level and any number of other influencing things. To get a more complete answer a lot more information would be needed.
2006-10-28 21:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ed D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say it's possible that he does feel hurt and all that by the tif and is rejecting anytype of sexual contact as a form of "punishment" to you because you are initiating it and not him.Just because he is rejecting you doesn't always mean he's cheating then again if there is a history of cheating then the feelings,you have of him possiblly cheating, are justified.
2006-10-28 22:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by rsbalent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know about foul play, but there definitely seems to be a large amount of immaturity. But that's not even the point. The point is that you need to work out whether you want to put up with an idiot like that any longer.
2006-10-28 21:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hollywood and women's magazines have wrongly convinced us that every man is nothing but a sex hound. Sorry, we're not. Most of us are actually intelligent enough to choose "who, what, when, where, and why" when it comes to sex. Most of us actually believe that "love" is the most powerful stimulus for an erection. And many of us don't actually need sex every day. My wife and I are madly in love with each other and we often go several weeks between sessions. And, yes, we do have the occasional fight, and it can prevent sexual feelings in either one of us.
2006-10-28 21:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, something's not right, ask him if there's a reason for the last 2 weeks, and ask him to tell you even what he thinks you might not want to hear. It's the only way to figure this out, we surely don't know. Just promise him not to be abusive no matter what the truth is-and then follow through-even if it means politely kicking his backside through the front door & changing the lock.
2006-10-28 21:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by gettin'real 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The worst could be true ... or many other possibilities. He could be relieving himself or it could be simply that mentally he is not in a horny state most of the time. This happens even to us men, especially if he has other things to occupy his time or if he is capable of exhibiting self control in other areas of life. You should judge him on his own temperament and not a stereotype of men.
So if any of these things are in place then he wouldn't be too 'backed up'. Or it could be that he really was pissed and needs to get over that before he can start to think sexy thoughts.
2006-10-28 21:15:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋