If they don't trust you, does that mean they do not love you?
2006-10-28 22:38:34 · 12 answers · asked by Red 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have been faithful but they do not trust, in turn wonder if they are guilty.
2006-10-28 22:45:31 · update #1
not hardly
2006-10-28 23:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by charles d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
Trust and love is different. Trust is the basement of every relation. Love doesnt happen in every trusting.For example we are trusting our Doctor but there is no love there. But in the alternate case ie if love is there trust will also come automatically.Love is coming from heart, trust is for purpose.Love without trusting is the most beautiful one in the world..One cannot trust a person for each and every point.Giving trust more importance means once it breaks then we cannot love the other person. But if love is standing in front we can forgive and continue a happy relation. this makes the other person to think about his mistakes...
Good Luck
2006-10-29 06:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust takes time to build. You have to prove yourself trustworthy for someone to be able to rely on you, love can exist without trust but only for a while and not if the trust is broken. It takes time so slow down. And never, ever trust anyone blindly...except your mother and that too if she's a good mother and you know it. All the rest...they'd dump you in a second for their greater good.
2006-10-29 05:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made the mistake of not following my intuition & common sense. I trusted my ex blindly. He was leading a doulbe life with another woman. So, if you have doubts bring them out in the open. He will understand if he cares for you. You can love without trust, it just makes things difficult.
2006-10-29 08:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone should trust someone completely. Even if you love someone, there is no 100% guarantee that it will work out. If you let your guard down and something happens, you will feel like a fool. I'm not saying to not trust at all, just be careful, don't take things for granted and if you feel somethings wrong, trust your gut instinct. You don't have to completely trust someone to love them..
2006-10-29 05:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is something that needs to be earned and develops over time. Like laying bricks one on top of each other, you have a few and they are bricks, you have a lot and you've built a wall. Trust needs to be built. Good luck.
2006-10-29 05:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by barkel76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't trust you (assuming you have not given them a reason to think you're untrustworthy), not only do they not love you, they have no idea what love even is. They are confusing love with total control, and that's what they're trying to establish and maintain over their partner's every move.
Big red flag: first warning sign of a potential abuser.
2006-10-29 05:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. Every person on earth has to earn the trust of others. Someone may love you and not trust you yet simply becasue of the fact you have not had enough chances to prove it to that person.
2006-10-29 05:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is certainly one of the foundations stones to a lasting relation, but blind love is definatly not the key.
2006-10-29 05:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by whisper v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We entered this world as strangers-
Two separate lives, two separate paths.
These paths crossed,
and a friendship bloomed.
These paths intertwined,
and memories were made.
These paths merged into one,
and a bond was formed-
A bond of friendship,
A bond of trust,
A bond of love,
A bond of FREINDHOOD
A bond that cannot be broken.
We entered this world as strangers
But shall leave this world as FREINDS
2006-10-29 05:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by raj the secret 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes trust them totally --- no it does not mean they dont love you --- it means you must earn their trust --- well i trust my lady with my life --- and im earning hers (no i have not cheated)
2006-10-29 05:41:35 · answer #11 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋