my man and i have been together for 3 years, we seperated for a week because we both had doubts about our love for 1 another. We just got back together again last friday. How do we get the butterflies back? I remember when we use to take each others breathe away. I just want it to be like it use to be. But how do we do that? How do we bring it all back?
2006-10-28 22:43:39 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
anger
confusion
doubt
sadness
wanting
lying
lusting
beauty
longing
missing
uncertainty
newness
nervousness
betrayal
touches
kisses
all of this-
at once.
thrown into it
ready or not
here it comes
2006-10-28 22:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by raj the secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually the human body is not designed to bear the initial euphoria of falling in love forever. That's why no matter how great the love is in the beginning, it settles down into a muted feeling rather than the roller coaster feeling of before. You can't get the butterflies back or the 'take my breath away' feeling but what you can have is even better than that...slow, deep, affectionate love. And that kind is built over trust, commitment, affectionate behaviour and understanding. Try being more romantic with him, improve your sex life with new positions/toys etc, wear sexy things and just remind each other how much you love each other, whenever you get the chance. Try to spend as much time with each other as you can doing things that you both enjoy and have fun together!
2006-10-28 22:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing as much as is humanly possible to start understanding one another.Many couples go through life never realizing what their partners like and dislike.Many of us program ourselves to do all we can to put on our best thinking this will surely make him/her love me,but that gets old after a time and we eventually want to be ourselves.Why not allow both of you to be yourselves and then see if that's the person you want to spend your life with?Respecting one another and allowing each person just to be themselves will ease the tension and allow love back into your home.Tolerance for one another will still be necessary but tarring down imagination will do wonders for you both.One other thing,show him what you've done here.Any man would be proud to know he is loved by such a beautiful woman.God Bless
2006-10-29 00:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by don_steele54 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's still there Honey, you have to look for it. Make a date for a day off you both have. Turn off the phone and make sure no one of you friends comes around. Get into your sexiest night ware and tell him to do the same.
Spend the day with a porno (if he doesn't mind, includes you) and than spend the day in bed.
It's a fact that cuddling is sexier than the actual sex that follows, try it. Lots of kissing and hugging.
2006-10-28 22:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are book you can find that help with that.I think one of them is Called great romance, it has things set up so you do it as a suprise to one another.They help out alot or you could try going to the places you first went to when starteds dating to help rekinndle your emotions for each other.
2006-10-28 23:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by rsbalent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not really a question you can ask, If you plan something you know its comming and you wont get the butterflies. If it happens it happens they will come back be patient..its only been a week.
2006-10-28 22:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go back to whee you first time your love one form another and tried to look back go ford and live one day at a time
2006-10-28 22:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out can you let me know please.
2006-10-29 00:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋