That may or may not indicate that a divorce is imminent....just trying to figure out where I stand.. Thanks
2006-10-28 22:39:47 · 8 answers · asked by Mackdaddy4_U 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A marriage is over when the following things no longer exist in the marriage;
- Love
- Affection
- Commitment
- Trust
- Honesty
2006-10-28 22:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, know that you CAN do anything! 7 months of fighting is rough, but it does not have to equal the end of a marriage. Second - give yourself a break, literally. Juggle your finances so that you can hire a cleaning service to take care of the major housework at least once a week. Hire a sitter (or have a family member take care of the baby) so you and your husband can go out alone. Do what it takes to make sure you have some dedicated 'me' time - even a couple hours once a week will help you feel less overwhelmed. Third - don't underestimate counseling. You don't know if it will work until you try it. Just having an objective voice can help you distill what's really making you unhappy. When you say that your husband doesn't help, is it that he doesn't do things EXACTLY the way you do them? Does he let things pile up and that makes you crazy? That's a smaller battle to pick. If you two can agree on a division of labor, you need to do that - and you need to not pick at him if he doesn't do it to your standard. I know it's hard, but you need to not do EVERYTHING so you don't tire yourself out for your baby. Hang in there.
2016-05-22 04:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to ask............? maybe! have a sit-down and bring it out Honey. Find out where you stand. Maybe he would like to know also. Or.....maybe you relationship needs a boost, like a dead battery.
Instead of thinking of why you should dump the bum you should think of ways to enlighten you relationship unless of course there's values we haven't heard of. Try a morning in bed, the two of you, try hugging, think of the old days and what brought you together in the first place.
2006-10-28 23:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the frying pan handle goes wonky from having hit hubby on the head too many times.
2006-10-28 22:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by jackie j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well where my marriage was over my husband would make up lie and tell me and i find out he was go out on me it hurt it was with a won men he work with she was marriage to but i was the last one to
2006-10-28 23:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you expect anyone to take a person serious with the chatname "mackdaddy"
2006-10-28 23:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the BJ's become few & far between.
2006-10-28 22:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Pat R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHATEVER MAY BE THE SIGNS, CHANGE ALL YOUR PASSWORDS - BANK, COMPUTER ETC ETC.
GOOD LUCK MATE
2006-10-28 22:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sarang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋