my ex was invited to a halloween party but before she went she dileberatly tried to make me mad. could she be seeing someone and just no want me to know about it? why would she want to start an argument and make me mad?
2006-10-29 04:33:00 · 21 answers · asked by mcgomery2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe she wants u back, and by trying to make u jealous, she may think that this will work, why don't you just ask her why she tried making you mad, she may be wanting you to ask her, then maybe you will find out. Good luck !!
2006-10-29 04:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by hotbabes_tracey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like both of you were too immature to be married but still want to maintain a junior high relationship. Grow up first before getting married and the reason why she started an argument is because she didn't want you to go because she found someone she wanted to go with more. She called you first because she didn't want to be alone but then found someone else in the meantime. Get over it. Grow up. STAY AWAY from her and wear condems.
2006-10-29 12:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by WDS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would anyone start an argumant to make someone mad? Is this a tactic you employ at certain times? When you get in an argument with someone, then decide they must've done it to make you mad, you are playing the victim. You are pretending she started a fight with you and you are trying to control whether she moves on with her life. You seem to have some anger and control problems, please go get help before you reel in another woman.
2006-10-29 12:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by createdorjustcrap? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two can and probably will stay friends, but remember there is a reason that you two got divorced and there will be tense moments and situations from time to time. The longer you are divorced the less these situations will get. Divorced for 5 years and friends with his current.
2006-10-29 12:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels bad about having another man...maybe she respects you as a person and understands how she would feel if you had another women. Myabe she doesnt want to hurt you and doenst really realize she argueing with you. Or maybe she wants your approval before dating again and she doesnt know how to asked cause she knows you and her will get into it. So instead of asking she avoids the question and go for the fighting instead.
2006-10-29 12:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you two haven't really closed the door to your relationship.
People who are divorced can certainly be friends but they don't play games to make each other jealous.
Maybe some distance is in order at this time.
2006-10-29 12:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though your Ex is trying to make you jealous. When you divorced it sounds as though you both wanted the divorce. If she did, and you didn't, than this makes all the more reason of her trying to make you jealous. She wants you close, but not close enough.
2006-10-29 12:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is either seeing someone or has her eyes on someone who will be at the party and she did not want you there.
2006-10-29 12:37:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u both acting so silly and trying to be friends after the divorce-for god's sake find someone else for a fullfilling relationship.
2006-10-29 12:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by IKNOWNO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was just in a bad mood. I pick fights with my boyfriend sometimes when I need to relieve stress.
2006-10-29 12:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋