Does he still light your fire?
Do you still get butterfly's in your stomach when you think of him?
2006-10-29 10:51:01 · 19 answers · asked by Gossip81 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If not
why ? maybe it some thing that can be fixed
2006-10-29 10:56:06 · update #1
Mrs. Star, I have been married since Feb. 1980. 26 years 8 months...and my husband is still the only man that I want to light my fire. He's my air that I breath, he's the one that hearts still beats to when I see him every morning. Butterflies a plently.
When I walk into a room, he's the one I look for first, he's the one that makes me tingle like a school girl. The sparkle in his eyes, the cute little grin, that makes me still blush. Yes, my husband is still sexy to me. And most definite things get better with age.....
God bless us all..........
2006-10-29 11:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by totallylost 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have been with my husband nearly 19 years now and married for 17. We had the mad butterflies and tingling bit at the beginning but as time wore it was like a flickering candle - it got less bright but didnt go out.
This was a 2nd marriage for both of us - I brought three boys to the marriage and we also have one of our own. Financially things have always been hard, I have had life threatening illnesses on four occasions. Things have been tough but he has been my rock. He has put up with so much.
I love him more than ever and he says the same, but most of the time it has a different feel to it now. It is a gentle love, warm and cuddly. Even as I think of him now, crashed out on the sofa, I have a lovely warm feeling like a cloak being put around me.
The other thing I have discovered is that now the family are all grown up, we can get away more at weekends on our own, it's wonderful and we've got a lot closer - that flickering candle has taken hold again and burns a very bright flame.
My one weakness outside of my husband is that I love clean cut men in smart suits - this aptly describes my eldest son's work attire and even I think he looks dishy.
So what I love more than anything, is when my husband and I get the opportunity to dress up and go out to a dinner dance. He puts on his Dinner Jacket and bow tie and I dress up in high heels, jewellery and a posh frock, then yes - we always stand and admire each other and have a hug and that tingly butterfly feeling comes back. It's like we're going out on our first date all over again.
2006-10-29 20:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by ShumB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he does. As a matter of fact I find him more attractive because he has gained a little more weight and it looks good on him. He still lights my fire and I love it when he comes through the door after work. He makes my heart skip a beat when he calls me by my pet name and I love it when he calls or texts me to say that he is thinking about me and that he loves me.
2006-10-30 00:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even after 6 years my boyfriend is the real love of my life. I wouldn't trade him in for Bradd Pit, George Clooney or Sean Connery. My boyfriend still sends tingles down my spine when I think about him and see him. We have lived together for years and have a child and I still can't wait to see him every evening when he gets home from work. Seeing as he's now waiting for me in bed, I better go and join him.
Good night everyone.
2006-10-29 19:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by honeb1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 17 years and our relationship has grown stronger! We are probably more passionate now than when we were first married!! Don't get me wrong, we've had our problems, but somehow we manage to keep it together.
We are very open and honest with one another and we are both willing to compromise on some things (give and take). Oh yeah, and we're both still pretty cute.
2006-10-29 18:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ernimay 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am male i still find my wife very attractive after we have been together since we were 10 years old and now we are in our 40 and are still love each other same and stronger as years go by iam sure 100% my wife feel the same
2006-10-29 19:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by markbennettstephen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a rel with my ex partner for 14 years and to be honest i never was in love with him, i loved him but was not in love with him
I met him when i was 16 and we split up when i was 30, it has only been recently that i have found out what being in love with someone actually means.
I met this guy 6 months ago and i fell in love with him, we split up a few months ago and i am still in love with him
2006-10-29 19:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely have to say YES. After 12 years my man is still the hottest man out there. Just his smell makes my toes curl.
2006-10-29 19:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my husband does, but i don't do it for him. he calls me fat cow every chance he gets. i am not the weight when we married, but i am no where near what he makes me feel like. then he wonders why i don't want to have sex with him the majority of the time. i guess i shouldn't really be attracted to him b/c of that. he has put on weight since our wedding date, but i still see a gorgeous man. i guess i am fighting a losing battle here, huh? yea, i know.
2006-10-29 19:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I still think he's sexy like I look at him sometimes and think he's got a great body...but he's such a jerk their r no butterflies just pains of remembrance over the way he treated-treats me and his son.
2006-10-29 18:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by lol_des 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋