we had a fight then we decided to break up.. then later that day i told him that i was sorry and that we could get back together if he wanted and he said no, i asked him to think about it, and he said ok... how long do i wait until i let him go for sure? cause i love him alot and i know he loves me..
2006-10-29 11:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by Kim Buns 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thanks everyone for your answers... my bf asked for me back the same day.. thanks a million for your support
2006-10-30 00:03:53 · update #1
I don't know how old you are but I sense you're hurting....you can still love someone and not be with them. You're probably feeling scared now, at the prospect of loosing him. But, for what ever mistake you made you said you were sorry...your best bet now is to wait it out. Don't chase after him. No matter how young or old the guy is they don't like to be chased. Keep yourself busy with other friends. Cry if you need to but don't let this consume you. Believe it or not it's not the end of the world. In the mean time get out and about.... this may be an opportunity for some one else who thinks you're ALL THAT to ask you out. If your boyfriend gets jealous, just remind him he let you go ----if he wants you back he'll fight for you! Let him win you back!
2006-10-29 11:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooooo I've been there girl. You live, you learn. Thats probably not what you want to hear but its true. I understand how bad youre hurting just give it time. (Again, probably not what you want to hear) Give him some time, I dont know what you said to him but he doesnt know if deep down you really meant those things you said or not. If he doesnt come around cry your eyes out but keep living and doing the best you can and know that you WILL come out of this as a much stronger person in the end. Life deals us hard lessons and the best we can do is learn for future experiences. Hope this helps. Good Luck sweetie.
2006-10-29 22:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by justcurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can move on and have a few dates with someone else and then he comes back and you still want him, then it is probably right. If you fight to the point of a breakup, it may be for the best. It does hurt, but we all do have many loves in one lifetime so sometimes we move on. Give him another chance after trying someone else is still my best advice.
2006-10-29 19:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put a time limit on it. If you two are thinking about getting back together then work towards this goal and take as long as you feel comfortable taking. Best of luck to both of you.
2006-10-29 19:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by boxerpitk9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you guys do work it out, take it as a lesson learned. Don't ever break up again unless you mean it. Playing with someones emotions can definitely get you burned.
2006-10-29 19:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never say what you don't mean...that is the lesson here. Maybe it will work out maybe you'll move on just breath.
2006-10-29 19:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by lol_des 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good. i hope he find someone else. just kidding. should wait until you meet your soulmate before you let someone milk you for free.
2006-10-29 19:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by KaPaul L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. me and my girlfriend have just separated after 4years. she thinks we need space. but i am lost without her. to make matters worse i have just lost my job. i think you should give him room to think if you crowd him to much it can push him away.
2006-10-29 19:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Damo78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...stalker...he DOES NOT love you. Let go! Have you no shame??
2006-10-29 19:38:36 · answer #9 · answered by pullmytriggerthenblamemygun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One week.
2006-10-29 19:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋