i have met three different ladies in the past month and a half.
the first was into s+m, not my style, and a meth head (hence the baggage).
second ones husband walked out after a month and an alcoholic.
the one i just started seeing has caviar taste on a beer budget.
is there any woman out there that you don't need a degree in psychology to have a normal relationship, Please Help.
2006-10-29 08:51:37 · 9 answers · asked by jawtar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i really appreciate your answers. my analogy might have let you believe i was meeting them at bars or whatever, not the case.
2 i met thru other people and the current is a waitress at the diner i frequent after work.
I DON'T DRINK AND I DON'T FREQUENT BARS.
sorry about the analogy and my budgets fine it's hers that needs a boost
2006-10-29 09:03:45 · update #1
Learn where nice ladies go in your town, or improve on yourself. Try reading the ads to know where to go. location, interests, activities.
FYI Try: www.Craiglist.com or www.PlentyofFish.com
That is not baggage, those are bad or annoying habits.
2006-10-29 09:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by strong1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if you are trying to hurry your relationships along. Why not, for now, just meet some women and get to know them? (Getting to know someone takes time, a lot of time.) And you might want to analyze where you meet women. If you are picking up women in bars or night clubs, you might want to change where you meet them. Think about the kind of woman you would like to meet and then figure out where that kind of woman is.
2006-10-29 08:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by servinggodalone 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not that is there any woman out there for you, it's that you need to take time out to know what you want in a relationship. If you are dating these kind of women you must not be taking your time in knowing who they are and what their motives are in the relationship. The only way you will know what you really want is to seek God on what you need in a woman and how are you to treat that woman when she comes alone. Know that it's God that gives the best answers to your questions. God bless you.
2006-10-29 09:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you looking to pick these woman up? You should try taking the classic approach, like a cooking class, book store, or any other hobby type activie that involves good people.
2006-10-29 08:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are meeting these girls in the wrong place. a bar for instance. worst place to try to meet someone for a relationship.also if you are meeting older women they are going to have a past from being around the block(as the term goes). i am sure if you look inside yourself, you have baggage as well!
2006-10-29 08:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by she-girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are meeting these women in the wrong places. Change your scouting grounds, try a library not a dance club
2006-10-29 08:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i bet you are a sweet guy an just not meeting the right girls. but you will an it will prob. be when you quit looking so hard. leave the caviar taste to the rich! alot of girls will enjoy your beer!
2006-10-29 08:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well at least your not talking about her kids , i thought that was where you were headed with that one. proud of ya! but you will meet the right girl sooner or later an she will be happy to just have a beer with ya on that beer budget of yours.
2006-10-29 08:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by kierstead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of them out there. maybe you need to look outside of the bars
2006-10-29 08:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by Btieti 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋