my "fiancee`" and I have been living together for over a year. I met him online three years ago, I moved from far away to make a life with him. We have a almost two yr. old daughter. We are both divorced, have three kids each from the other marrige. And he has one more child from a short relationship while we were apart....(he was sleeping around)
Ya, Eight kids together.
I thought we were happy until I went to the pc today and his account was still open to yahoo's personals.
I read his profile and it seemed innocent enough, but now he's getting girls that are answering his add.
What should I do/think after he has had two women pregnant, but he is living with me and has asked me to marry him. Are we just "playing house" or is he looking for someone else to move on with?
2006-10-29 12:06:19 · 17 answers · asked by talk4now2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
majority thinks I should get out.... problem is, its my house, he does this stuff on the sly, I don't have a fulltime job.....
2006-10-29 14:18:27 · update #1
It seems you already have the answer...if he did it once, he will do it again, because he can, and your letting him. If he loves you so much, why did he get with someone else so fast and get her pregant while you were apart. What a hard decision you have to make. Think of yourself and your children.
Good luck to you!
2006-10-29 12:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Laea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....posting an ad doesn't sound real "innocent" to me, but then on the other hand....you probably shouldn't be snooping into his stuff. 8 kids together can be stressful enough on a real SOLID relationship....married or not! I'd have a reeeeeaaaaalllll long talk with him sooner than quicker. You're the only one that can really try to find out if he's staying on the same cheating path, ...short of hiring a private detective! You ARE in a tough situation...good luck with it.
2006-10-29 20:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he still have a singles account? I found out that my husband was cheating on me when, well it was woman's intuition. Then the picture came around, but besides that trust your woman's inituition, ask him why he still has that site for himself, and then if it doesnt get any better, and you still feel this way, just open your eyes, the answer is right in front of you, just be sure if your looking its because you dont trust him, or you already know.
Best of luck.
2006-10-29 20:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by crzyfiregirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both! You're just "playing house" and he's keeping you around until he finds something "better" (in his eyes). Take your daughter and leave. He's not going to change. Even if he agrees to take down the Yahoo profile, I guarantee you that he has other profiles online.
2006-10-29 20:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd get rid of him. One time is enough. Even if you broke up, if he didn't give it at least 2 months before he moved on with this girl he got pregnant, then he must not love you too much. I think youre right to think he's cheating.
2006-10-29 20:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by Pretty Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is what i think i have lots of question that i need answers to and when i get the answer it wasn't the answer i was looking for, heres my answer don't think his cheating untill you find other thing to make you think that. the two he got pregnat wasn't probally intended it probally was a accedent if he keep asking you to marry him there's probally something about you he loves cause most guys would quit asking just talk to him see whats going on and don't jump conclusions. good luck hope the best for you two.
2006-10-29 20:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by somallian_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be confortable with the idea of my man having a profile on Yahoo pesonals. Why does he need that?
2006-10-29 20:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANd you are asking this ? because....obviously hes a liar and a cheat. This is definatley not going to work out!! Move on.
2006-10-29 20:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by littlemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, and would it really matter? Do you know how you would handle it you found out it was true? If you have the foundation you should have, then you should ask him. Then you will have all answers!
2006-10-29 20:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he's cheating. He may want to marry you but he seems the type to not be able to be monogamous.
2006-10-29 20:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋