let me correct my question..i am married to this man and he neevr mention the ***** of an ex he got...and he lies..darn i wanna nail this loser so bad for hurting and lying to me grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
2006-10-29 11:28:46 · 20 answers · asked by sweet&sassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Okay, you get the same advice I just gave someone else. Go find someone who will treat you better! Ignore him for a little bit and go find someone who can make your heart sing. Shag them for a while and then forget all about your hubby. File for a divorce and take him for all he's worth. He sounds like a real a**hole anyway, so why waste anymore of your life putting up with him?!?
2006-10-29 11:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know where you're coming from, my boyfriend (EX) of 6 years cheated on me and not that he admitted it to me but I had an idea of who the girl was and one day we were both at a cafe and I asked to use her phone cause my battery was dead and sure enough not only did I see his number many times on her phone I also checked her text msgs and sure enough there were many text msgs from him, believe me this happened 2 weeks ago and he still denies it but we are no longer together and its very hard...... good luck to you and divorce his *** cause once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat
2006-10-29 20:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to not forgive is to lack boundaries. unforgiving people allow the people who hurt them to control them.set him free for hurting you, it will set you free as well.forgive him so u can move on with life, divorce him and show him there are consequences for what he did.sure i wanted to hurt my ex too, but i realiazed i was powerless, the more i thought of ways to hurt him,the worse i felt. one day i just thought to myself, that this man would never acknowledge the wrong, or be sorry, it was a debt to owed he wasn't going to pay, not ever, so in releasing him from it i began to feel better about me. when i forgave, i was able to move on without carring any of the baggage into the new relationship, last i heard about my ex, they called me to ask where he was, told me he had not been paying his bills, i must think all did not go well for him, and her.the best revenge is to leave a bad situation with your dignity, not by getting revenge on someone. don't seek revenge, less heaven might turn her judgement from him.
2006-10-29 19:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you had to go through all of the pain, so this is for you.
Something Specially
For You
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all.
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-29 19:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating husbands....wow. they just run off with the young and ditch the old. Fresh Shrimp...new fresh water clams at the door step of the woman who is losing her husband.
Set your bait and catch that fish that is the Barracuda in your life right now and filet her nicely,.
2006-10-29 19:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vengence is always tempting, but he isn't worth the time and energy that it takes to do it. Look at his overall character...he is ruining his own self, so you don't have to get revenge on him. He is unstable, untrustworthy, and moral less. You don't have to add any drama to his life, he is doing a fine job of that himself. LOL, laugh at his ignorance and move on.
2006-10-29 19:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by boxerpitk9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating? cuz YOUR FAT and you dont put out... even if you put out your FAT! if you say no your not FAT... look down do you have a pouch? a pouch is ANY skin or fat coming out of your stomach... let me put it this way... if you dont have a six pack YOUR FAT, hit the gym and i promise you, i you get a six pack he will never leave you... but sorry your just a big FATTY
one more thing... i know for a FACT that you wont leave him because you are FAT and FAT people like you should be happy to even get a husband.
2006-10-29 19:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by Random Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Success is the BEST revenge. Don't give him any power over you...focus the anger in a positive way and become more than who you are. Good luck!
2006-10-29 19:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by pullmytriggerthenblamemygun 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not to likely that he will change at this point. Best to you on this one.
2006-10-29 19:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny thing...What comes around goes around..wink wink..
2006-10-29 19:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋