to find out if they truely love you or will cheat on you? I had an ex do this to me one time by having a nice looking woman try to seduce me. Did I pass? Sure did, have never cheated on anyone nor even thought about it, but after she told me what she did I broke up with her for doing it. I hate playing games or being tested, don't you?
2006-10-29 11:31:07 · 11 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Glad to hear you passed the test....and graduated to bigger and better things. That to me would have been the end as well....no trust....No relationship...I don't need to be tested.....cause then I gets Testy LOL
2006-10-29 12:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate that stuff...only proves the one doing the testings own insecurities and short-comings. I sat along my friend's deathbed as she was dying from cancer (she was 42 years old); and after her husband came in, I waited in the hallway with his sister. My friend passed away and he came into the hall sobbing. Our hearts went out to him and you know what he said?...He said, "when we were dating I put her through every test there was - and she passed every one, but I"m so ashamed of myself today - for having done that to her 20 years ago. Why could I not simply see how much she loved me?"
That's a true story. I'll never forget that...and I HATE games.
For me it boils down to 'is I is or is I ain't your baby?' Trust me or don't trust me...but if you don't, then I'm going to kick you to the curb just as fast as if I couldn't trust you. I broke up with several men who wanted to put me through "tests"....I couldn't give a flying monkey over anyone as petty as that. A REAL man or a real person of any character would never "test" someone they love.
2006-10-29 19:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by svmainus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How childish and immature for her to test you like that! No, I have never tried to test someone I was with. I believe in telling the truth no matter what and expect the same from my man.
2006-10-29 19:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have not tested a man but have had one test me. I believe in trust in a relationship and without that there is none.
2006-10-29 19:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Justwondering 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not do that. If you must test a woman that you feel that you can't trust. Leave her be and find you one that you can without testing.
You will have to trust her one day be it now or later, but before you get too invloved you best look for your Princess desire.
2006-10-29 19:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No never been tested. If she did and I found out she would be an ex. I guess that is why yours is an ex.
2006-10-29 19:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Games are for children!
2006-10-29 19:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Games are a frame of mind It sounds like she had a problem believing in her self. and that is why she tested you. it wasn't about you it was about her. I also say he/she who plays the game of life best wins. keep that in mind the next time you dump a girl because she don't beleive in herself.
2006-10-29 19:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by Richard W 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I like to play Poker...and tests are pretty cool.
2006-10-29 19:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by pullmytriggerthenblamemygun 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you were right on dumping her . if there is no trust what is the point. i hope you find or have someone that is there for you and trust you.
2006-10-29 19:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋