She experiances terrible pain, and show no interest,
2006-10-29 21:45:45 · 16 answers · asked by tiny tom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she is in pain, she will have no interest,
Take her to a doctor
2006-10-29 21:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The poor thing! I was, and still am sometimes, the same way!
I get cysts and I have endometriosis. She more than likely has one or both of these problems. You need to get her to a gynocologist; a specialist, if you want this resolved.
Meantime, until you figure out the problem, use lots of KY Jelly and be very very slow and soft and ask her which position is the most comfortable for her. For me it's (lol) on my back! But, I love doggy-style, if I really want to deal with the incredible amounts of pain and sometimes bleeding afterwards.
It's not you, just know that!
When sex is painful, it's just that. PAINFUL. Who wants to do something that causes so much pain unless it's out of pure love and respect for the other person? Be very greatful she'll ever have sex, knowing that it's painful.
2006-10-29 21:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been to a doctor and can find nothing wrong ? it may be psychological: You may have to see a psych doctor to resolve this problem.
Of course there are ways: be gentle, slow, lot's of foreplay to get her both in the mood and lubricated. Use a lubricant.
Get some porno movies if she would be willing. Follow through and go from there. Good luck.
2006-10-29 21:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to my friend. It is because of a problem with the tissue in her vagina. Yes, she said it was painful but she went to the doctor and now she is fine with sex.
If it is painful, then she will not like it. Take her to a doctor and he will know what to do.
Good luck and hope everything goes well
2006-10-29 21:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by Zahra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
scared because its a painful activity due to lack of foreplay.Secondly it can be because of you.Lot of girls have dreams for their lovely married life but when reality is different, other person doesn't act the way she has dreamed of ... one loses int.in sex. Better talk to her openly, what exactly she wants and try that way . If this too doesn't work ,take her to some psyc. Else she needed medical help.
2006-10-29 23:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by simran s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not know about this before you got married?She really needs to see a doctor so you two can have a family someday.
2006-10-29 22:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently it is an arranged marriage and she is not adapt at it. Take her to a Gync for examination. If every thing ok, be patient with her. Probably u r forcing urself w/o her being prepared for the act. She shud be well lubricated if she is prepared for sex.
2006-10-29 21:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
pain = go see a doctor
2006-10-29 22:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor
2006-10-29 21:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to see the Dr.
She hopefully agrees that this is a problem or you are in big trouble.
2006-10-30 04:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋