is there a way around this? i do love him a lot though? and he is crazy about me.
2006-10-29 22:18:00 · 8 answers · asked by vini_lang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds to me like maybe you had to get married? If not then maybe you got married to young and didn't sow your oats. The way around it? .....Im not gonna answer that one.
2006-10-29 22:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by l800sexaholic 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Marriage is sooooooooo much more than just about the sex!!!
Marriage is something we all have to work on.
Sounds like you are in a rut. Have you been doing the same things since you first got married?
Change is good, nothing radical, small changes.
Do you still go out on dates?
Plan a weekend away from home.
Good Luck
Happily married here for 20 years!!!
2006-10-30 06:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by kitt_kattkitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In marriage there are always ups and downs. Expect this. You will always have different feelings of love towards each other. Don't worry about it and don't read into it and don't do anything drastic to try to reclame a "flame" in the marriage because that could lead to further heartache.
I suggest doing nice, sweet things for him and praising him often.
When you're serving someone you will learn to love them very deeply.
The passion will follow.
2006-10-30 06:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you need to work at any relationship both in and out of the bedroom. sometimes, we fall into a 'routine' life after a while and that passion and excitement seems to dwindle away without us actually 'reaslising' it. do something special for yourselves one night, call him at work and tell him you've booked dinner for the both of you at a nice restaurant. wear something you know he'll like, flirt with him, have fun and have a great night out with your man! maybe he will return the favour? :o)
2006-10-30 06:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably caught up in the same thing all the time syndrome. Try something different to spice up the love vibes. Don't fall victim to the different day same love routine it's your love life spice it up! Do something you've wanted to do but never done that's the ticket!
2006-10-30 06:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
set aside some time just for the two of you. plan a romantic dinner and get excited about what you will do for him after desert. good luck
2006-10-30 06:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very normal wife and someday will wonder why he cheated on you.
It is your job to figure this out and in the meantime please him sexually and often.
BJs too!
2006-10-30 12:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAPPENS DEAR, HAPPENED TO ME, BUT WE TALKED OUR SELVES OUT OF IT.
REKINDLE THE RELATION, DO THINGS A LITTLE OUT OF THE ORDINARY, LIKE U USED TO DO IT BEFORE U GOT MARRIED.........................
THERE IS HOPE.............. GOOD LUCK'
2006-10-30 06:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Sarang 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋