2006-10-27 21:02:35 · 20 answers · asked by Lucky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SHOW HER SOME SEXY FILMS.
2006-10-27 22:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to identify the reason of her unwillingness. She may be feeling tired or sick, not necessarily due to overwork, but may be because she is getting overweight or have other medical conditions that are leaving her exhausted. She may be angry in her heart but feels that talking to you is no good for you will not pay attention to what she realy wants and there will be unnecessary fights, but she wants to distance herself from you. May be she is feeling too sentimental and feels dirty and used having sex as a phase. If you do not talk to her about having sex and just lie down beside her, offering just a massage to help her relax (with clothes on perhaps to make her feel more comfortabe) and just talk to her for a while and tell her that you love her and will always be there for her. Even if you are angry, it just means that you are not feeling right yourself. Keep your desires low for a few days and you will soon see, that this care and expressions of love and then a bit of foreplay really works.
2006-10-28 05:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of the reasons, any improvement in your current relationship will first have to be predicated on the fact that you must understand what she's going through, and only then will you both be able to discover a solution to your difficulties.
It sounds like you both have some very legitimate issues regarding your sexuality, intimacy and romantic "needs" and "wants". I know it's hard to be willing to hear, but it does sound like she's at least telling you what she doesn't want right now - sex!
My advice would be for you to seek out marital counseling, where you can safely discuss how you're both feeling. Without blaming, talk to each other about your pain and loss. Listen to one another in a spirit of cooperation and love. If you're both willing to "put your cards on the table," then I'm certain that you will be able to renew your love
2006-10-30 07:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Interesting that you chose the screen name Lucky. Try finding out WHY her desire is low or non-existant. If it's because she works all day then comes home to housework, cooking, laundry and children...then you may try getting her a maid a couple of days a week...or helping her out yourself. If that's not the problem...try romance...candle-light dinner, flowers, music
2006-10-28 04:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay
2006-10-28 04:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Truth ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
See u just have to go ahead, like kiss her, hug her and then she will get the picture or if u feel this does not work talk to her directly and tell her ....... after all she is your wife she should understand you.
2006-10-28 04:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Cool gal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a day of doing special things that will make her feel loved and helping her with the things she needs to get done so she can focus her energy on being with you.
2006-10-28 04:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Play your games[not the intercourse] in the day take her out and look at her as a an outside person who eat her through his eyes. Say her she's beautifull and sexy.that's it.
2006-10-28 04:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont rush her you dont never have enough time but to little yah married try to talk out wit her
sumtime its best fo space to let the other get better understand of 1s selves
2006-10-28 04:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how much you want her outside the bedroom (throughout the day) and maybe she will warm up to the idea...
2006-10-28 04:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by snape4good 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about other wifes/ ladies you know and praise them a bit - and how sexy they are - and she will then find out how to `get' you more often in bed
2006-10-28 17:13:38 · answer #11 · answered by jnpnjnjnj 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋