Marriage & Divorce - 27 October 2006

2006-10-27 10:15:47 · 1 answers · asked by dawn s 1

I have been with him for 4 years,we have a home and 2 gorgeous girls 2years and 7weeks. Since our new arrival I have been struggling with the kids as he works away mon -fri and really enjoys his job. Although our new baby is an absolute joy she screams all day and most the night. I feel like I have no life outside my kids and want to ask him to find local work but dont know if Im being selfish???

2006-10-27 10:12:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-27 10:11:09 · 36 answers · asked by Robert M 1

My ex was violent,aggressive and paranoid-He would leave me for anything for up to a week cos I hadn't cuddled up to him,or once when I asked him to hold the baby-
He was on it for 10 years and smoked it like cigs-He would accuse me of having a go at him when I hadn't actually said anything
We were married and 4 days after the wedding he threw his ring off cos I asked him a question about a motorbike.
He once pulled over on the dual carraigeway,took my baby and walked off with her 10 miles from home-cos he'd been screaming and I ignored him-I had no keys or phone.
I left when he started hitting my daughters
It was always 'bye bi*ch-Once he started screaming at me in a busy pub cos I had wanted to go for xmas lunch,and then told me to *uckoff and find someone else.

I got rehoused 200 miles from him and filed for divorce-I tried to maintain contact and I was told 'leave him alone cos I'm a fruitcake' so I did
I now have to allow him to see her at the contact center on 24th Nov

2006-10-27 10:05:41 · 25 answers · asked by Elle J Morgan 6

Question is I still like to go out and drink and dance and shoot pool.....He doen't......When I ask if he wants to go out he says "No...you go and have a good time." Does he really mean it or does he really want me to stay home with him?

2006-10-27 10:03:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been divorced for 2 years from my high school sweet heart. I have moved on. Im in a relationship I love my boyfriend but this is my problem. My ex-husband calls me to have sex with him. He is engaged and I like his fiance. I divorced because he was a cheater. Should I tell the fiance whats going on. I have discussed it with my boyfriend. Why would he continue to want to have sex with me? Neither of us were happy when we were married.

2006-10-27 10:00:27 · 16 answers · asked by theresa kay 1

Two months after my son was born I found out my husband was having an affair with the attorney he works for, and she is 20 years his senior!!! I have since found out that during my pregnancy, he was cheating with another girl from the office,, and she is also married. I asked him to move out because I was so upset by the fact the he had so little regard for our babies health and welfare, out sleeping around and then coming home to me. He could have given me a STD and that could have harmed our baby. He doesn't understand why I am so upset, and tells me I'm crazy. Has anyone else had an experience like this and how do you cope???

2006-10-27 09:59:55 · 33 answers · asked by Don't shop, adopt! 3

2006-10-27 09:59:40 · 9 answers · asked by justcurious 2

2006-10-27 09:59:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-27 09:51:33 · 27 answers · asked by Risedvn 2

She lives with us and my husband hates it. She 80 yrs. old and lives with us. I'm not sending her to a nursing home!

2006-10-27 09:50:27 · 12 answers · asked by Ha Ha Charade You Are................... 4

We are supposed to give food to some one who is hungry and asks us for it.If we can efford to give it and dont satisfy ones hunger its not supposed to be good.
Similarly, if a married women who has never been satsfied her hunger for sex by her husband asks a married or a unmarried man to help her to satisfy her hunger for sex , and that man helps her in that ,is not supposed good by the so called society. WHY??

2006-10-27 09:48:52 · 12 answers · asked by soofi 5

2006-10-27 09:47:44 · 72 answers · asked by **What??** 4

2006-10-27 09:45:28 · 20 answers · asked by trouble1374 1

i have instigated the divorce and my husband wont forgive me we have been married for over 25 years we have to share the house till things are sorted and finalised i want things to be amicable and we have got to sort stuff out but he refuses to discuss things with me.he has hurt me too,but the silence is torture is there a law against it

2006-10-27 09:42:05 · 24 answers · asked by lucky 2b 1

My sister lives in NY & had a baby w/ her boyfriend. He since has kicked her out, as he has decided to take on a new victim. Given they never married, what rights does he have to the baby? What would it take for her to get full custody, so that she has the right to decide if her baby visits him or not? He's not exactly in a good headspace right now, so it's not the healthiest environment for the baby.

2006-10-27 09:41:37 · 17 answers · asked by P 2

This is the first year in 5 years that me and my ex will not be together for the holidays. We've been apart now for 3 months,and I miss him but there is no chance of reconciliation. Should I send a holiday card ?

2006-10-27 09:38:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a recovering alcoholic and drug addict. He is in counceling for severe depression and on meds. His mom thinks he is perfect "just the way he is", but she doesn't know about 75% of the things he has done or is doing. He is looking at porn and WAS looking at kiddie porn. He promised me AND his shrink he would not delete anything in his history if I promised not to put parental controls on his acct. He is deleting his history. Also, to justify his actions, he is going through my e-mail and IM's to see what he could find. I have since changed ALL my passwords. His mom thinks he is "perfect, just the way he is" (her words) and would not understand if I left. He wouldn't tell her the truth anyway. I can't afford to leave right now and have no family in the area. I want to try ONE more time to work it out, but feel like its a waste of time. How do I get him to see that I am VERY unhappy and ready to leave if he doesn't get his life together?

2006-10-27 09:31:15 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been with boyfriend 10 years, for past 3 years there was flirting and but has evolved into something so much more. boyfriend knows flirting takes place, found emails back and forth stating my feelings about him and his feelings toward me. not sure what to do?

2006-10-27 09:30:10 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

My friend is getting married tomorrow, and we are suposed to go to the wedding. It is 4 hours away, and its really not a good time for us. For one, my husband is working, and doesn't want to take the time off work as we need the money, and he is in a important position on this job, which could be very benificial for him in future jobs, so doesn't want to take time off. Secondly, our 2 year old is sick, fever on antibiotics, I am not feeling well, running a temp also. I tred to talk to her about it but she is really stressed, and pissed because numerous people have cancelled, and the whole wedding planning process has been a nightmare. I feel bad, and I don't want her to be upset with me, and would hope that she would understand the circumstances. She is also 7 1/2 months pregnant, so her emotions are also running high. How do I deal with this situation so there will be no hard feelings.

2006-10-27 09:27:47 · 32 answers · asked by shrimpseys 4

2006-10-27 09:27:24 · 37 answers · asked by Penguin Gal 6

As your once studly husband ages and his body gets a little hairier and his gut becomes a pony keg and his pecs become more moob (man boob) than pec, and his head hair starts disappearing, have you told your man that you see all these things and you still love him and want him? If you haven't, why not?

2006-10-27 09:18:36 · 11 answers · asked by OU812 5

Ok. My husband and I are separated. I went over today, we have been talking about reconciling. He told me he hooked up with another girl. He said he thought we were done, and I told him that we are not divorced.
If it isn't cheating, then why does it hurt? I can't even look at him. I am so mad that he would make love to another girl and yet cry for me to come back. What do you think?

2006-10-27 09:17:06 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Happy Friday & Have a great & safe weekend & see you all back here on Moday

Oh yeah, and for all of you that will say Thank You for the 2pts. You're welcome, Make it a good one!!

2006-10-27 09:16:27 · 26 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

I'm really targeting a more mature audience where both partners are old enough to be dealing with mid-life crisis issues and with kids in the picture. Anyone's answers are welcome!

2006-10-27 09:14:18 · 6 answers · asked by OU812 5

My better half is giving me less satisfication these days and wanting me to give him all the satisfaction. He wants me rub his anas with my fingers, etc. and to give him oral while doing it, etc. I think he would rather give me anal than vaginal sex as well but I haven't let him because it hurt too bad when he tried and quite honestly all this male anal stuff is freaking me out a bit. Is it just for his pleasure, is it that good? I feel like everything is better than my vangina because he seems to like oral better. Ok yes it sounds a bit like he just selfish too but what about all this anal? I guess it is no big deal but what do you think?

2006-10-27 09:12:12 · 16 answers · asked by Tess 1

My wife has started opening up about her sexual fantasies during sex. but i think she still feels a little guilty. could any other married women give us some ideas of there fantasies so she knows its normal to have them. you can email us also if you would rather. needingitnow342000@yahoo.com

thanks

2006-10-27 09:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by needingitnow342000 2

Wife says chatting online and using a cam to pleasure yourself is cheating. Husband says it's not because there is no actual physical contact.

Wife asks husband to stop because she feels betrayed now that he knows how she feels about it, & he says he will. About 8 months later she wakes up in middle of night to use bathroom (she's pregnant) and finds him pleasuring himself while on computer. He swears he hasn't done it since they first discussed it, cries that he loves her and swears up and down to never do it again because he knows how much it hurts her. Wife doubts, but because she's pregnant and they already have another child, believes him.

Wife has gnawing feeling it's still going on and does some "investigating"on computer and finds husband is STILL doing this (and never stopped). This time he uninstalls chat software and removes webcam and claims it's all "nothing." Please don't leave him.

He won't go to counseling as he's too ashamed to talk to stranger about it. Thoughts?

2006-10-27 09:10:36 · 22 answers · asked by Neeners 3

i have seen my wife is having sex with three different men in three different occations . each time she told me that she would nt do it again , and next time . she will tell that she couldnt help having it . she loves me a lot and i love her too what to do ?

2006-10-27 09:07:39 · 26 answers · asked by jaga j 1

2006-10-27 09:06:39 · 9 answers · asked by OU812 5