Question is I still like to go out and drink and dance and shoot pool.....He doen't......When I ask if he wants to go out he says "No...you go and have a good time." Does he really mean it or does he really want me to stay home with him?
2006-10-27 10:03:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Half and half. Ask him if he wants to go and if he says no, then ask him if he would like to spend the evening with you. If he tells you to go ahead, then go, always ask twice! I like when my girl goes out without me, it's fun to imagine what the guys are doing to try to pick her up! Then when she gets home, we have some amazing sex.
2006-10-27 10:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, after 18 years I would have thought you would have outgrown the bar scene and moved on.
If your husband DOES mean it, you have a problem.......I am sure he wants you to stay home with him. Would you be O.K. with him going to the bars without you?
It is time for a serious talk with him. There is no way that I would like someone I was involved with to do that to me. That is why I said if he really doesn't care, there is a major problem you need to check out in your relationship.
2006-10-27 10:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some treatment reason you're production all kinds of stuff on your head. there's no genuine drama on your existence so that you're digging decrease back into heritage 10 years to attempt to create a scenario that receives you on the Jerry Springer teach? isn't there something on your cutting-edge and destiny existence with this guy and three young children that you'll concentration your capacity on?
2016-12-05 07:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he means it and it also shows he doesn't care about you the way he use to. And besides if he doesn't want to go out with you go anyway. Life is too short to sit at home doing the same old thing day after day.
2006-10-27 10:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by upatfour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 18 years he's really say........"Go, get out, stay out, you've been carrying on like a bar fly for all these years what difference does it make now." Why bother asking anyway........oh so if he says no you can argue and carry on till you get him so upset that he can't stand the sight of you. After 18 years of tramping around the bars you gotta be a real good wife.........gross!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-27 10:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really wants you to stay home... if you can stay home without being a b#tch and nagging. But if you're going to stay home and sulk and complain that you're bored then, yeah, he'd rather you got out of the house.
2006-10-27 10:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by The Divorce Guru 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats good for the goose is good for the gander
Don't be suerprised or get all bit_ _ y if you find out theres another women. Just rember, your the one that likes to go out.
2006-10-27 10:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by hello67898 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 18 years, I'm sure he doesn't mind the time apart.
2006-10-27 10:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by shellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's one way to find out if he means it, isn't there? Go girl, and have a good time.
2006-10-27 11:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really wants you to stay at home with him...
He married you, he stayed married to you, he loves you...
Do you still enjoy having sex together ?
Do you still love him ?
Then stay home with him...
2006-10-27 10:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋