Marriage & Divorce - 27 October 2006

I'm NOT asking if you like it. I'm asking if its bad?

Before you answer note that the Nixon Administration had a Presidential SCIENTIFIC investigation to Report on the effects of porn to see if pornography increased violence and the study found that there was no connection. The Reagan Administration had a NON-scientific SURVEY sent out about whether porn could be connected to violence and they it said there was a connection. Science said NO and a Survey said YES.

So is porn bad?
And would you allow your spouse to watch it in your home?

2006-10-27 06:37:53 · 40 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

2006-10-27 06:37:36 · 28 answers · asked by Larry G 2

My Husband and I have been in marriage counseling for a year and out for a year.... wehave only been married for 3 years. We seem to disagree on every thing and lately we have even began to ignore each other and I can't stand it. We will have a fight and then in a few days forget that is ever happened and in the mean time we just ignore each other. he and my Daughter form another person do not get along very well. We rarely have sex and he plays video games and sleeps alot. He hates my family( for good reason) But the main thing is he really doesn't even notice me till i tell him to....We go for days with out touching, kissing or even sleeping in the same bed. we don't really have a lot in common. And i know that he loves me but I do not think he is in love with me. Recently I have met some one who shows intrest in me. I find my self really attracted to him. I do not want to cheat but the temptation is there daily! My marriage seems to keep sliding further away. What should I do?

2006-10-27 06:37:29 · 21 answers · asked by kant_think 1

How can I forgive my boyfriend! He got a job in a film for two moths to be able to find a place to move in.I'm due in three weeks from now,What is ironic is that the first day of his job was also the first time we so our baby in a sonogram. How can someone be son insensitive about it and go and have sexual relationships with the director of the movie? I even spoke to her last week.I don't know what to do.We still live in the same place, I'm in a really tide situation here.My family is in a different state plus my doctors are here i can not leave. I'm so hurt that I don't even want to allowed him to be part of labor, but at the same time I don't want to be alone...I would like to give him an opportunity, go to therapy or something, well I discover that he cheated with other people as well...but we may don't have time to heal before labor...I already have contractions..anybody out there with good advise? Im hurt

2006-10-27 06:35:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

and she has big boobs and feels lingerie never fits/supports properly

2006-10-27 06:32:52 · 31 answers · asked by tabasco_mmmm 1

2006-10-27 06:32:10 · 9 answers · asked by razaengg 1

when you do washing,do you find anything in the pocket of your husbands or kids?

2006-10-27 06:29:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother-in-law is 56 yrs. old, not formally educated but quite intelligent; he is physically large (6'3" 245 lbs), self-imployed installer of sprinkler systems; he comes from a dysfunctional, abusive home, some of his siblings are alcoholics; he served in Viet Nam; he gets up at 5 or 6 a.m. and works hard till he comes home, then he literally drops. He's fat and hygeine suffers and he is a slob when he comes to house work, picking up after himself. He would let me come along behind him and clean up his messes and not think he was causing me any unfair additional work. He yells at me and is ALWAYS correct on any issue, and constantly interrupts and raises his voice if he disagrees. Yet, he is thoughtful and generous with his time or talents and effects with my children, grandchildren and my siblings. He'll drop what he's doing to help them, just not for me. I don't want suggestions for me however. I want to know clinically what is wrong with him? What does he suffer from etc.

2006-10-27 06:20:52 · 22 answers · asked by KevinMack 2

Ok clearly this is not a life and death issue. The problem is, he likes primetime tv shows (like Lost, The Unit, CSI) and I can't stand crap like that. I wish there was something else we could do together instead of watching the boob tube. Other than the obvious, isn't there anything newly-moved-in-togethers can do in the evenings together? I got the Playstation out be he doesn't like video games. I can do things on my own but I wish we could do some things together.

2006-10-27 06:17:09 · 13 answers · asked by Ade 6

2006-10-27 06:04:02 · 6 answers · asked by Hoot 1

i love him but im tired of him cheating.I dont think Im ugly i just want him to be faithful,he says he loves me but doesnt know why he does it.

2006-10-27 06:03:54 · 30 answers · asked by back to boosy 1

2006-10-27 06:02:03 · 10 answers · asked by jen_ners 1

My husband always tries to give me speeches about everything, I mean it gets on my nerves. Like I ask him his opinion and he starts well look let me tell you a lot of times or people. I am like ok, it is a yes or no answer.

2006-10-27 06:00:48 · 17 answers · asked by maria l 1

I've been waiting for a marriage proposal for more than 2 years. Now I think I would laugh and say "no" if he asked me!

2006-10-27 05:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by Nightwalker 3

I am liveing with my Partners Mother casue i cant live at home is this a good idea???? My Partner is housesitting for another week then he moves back in with his mum.....

2006-10-27 05:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by Nat M 1

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2006-10-27 05:56:39 · 34 answers · asked by lookgood2006 c 1

I'm moving in with my boyfriend and I don't know if I'm doing the right thing. I'm 19 and he's 21. We've been together for nearly two years now and I still feel smitten. However, I am worried that love really doesn't last forever and he'll get bored once he comes home to me every single night forever. (we're getting a mortgage you see).

does love last? Can it work?

2006-10-27 05:52:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know the whole numbur of divorced family in the UK

2006-10-27 05:49:24 · 4 answers · asked by lv257 1

Please help me. My ex husband is not paying a child support for my 9 years old daughter. CSA are not helping, solisitors are too expensive. What do people do in this situation?
Thanks.

2006-10-27 05:49:22 · 28 answers · asked by elnett 1

If you are a married man, decide to have sex with as single woman, but then accidently get her pregant. Would you divorce your current wife and the get married to the other woman? Would you stay married to your current wife, but do your part with child support, or would you not want anything to do with the child?

2006-10-27 05:44:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has always been pretty jealous an controlling, but now it seems to be getting alot worse..........he works way too hard, does not care about a social life at all, does not want to have any friends....only thing for him is work.......but he does not want me to have a social life either, he is only happy if I'm at home always.......I feel the need to have friends, go out.........this makes him very upset............it's really bothering me now! he says I'm the one with the problem, not him, somedays I feel like I'm going to go insane...........

2006-10-27 05:36:40 · 45 answers · asked by T 4

Nothing hurts more than realising he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him.


Anyone feels or felt the way I do??

2006-10-27 05:35:29 · 17 answers · asked by DiL 3

2006-10-27 05:32:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have finally seperated and now he wants custody of the children, I will not let him see the children because he is currently on probation for possession of methamphetamins, and he was suppose to take drug classes, and he got kicked out of them because he would not go. We lost our children to CPS for drug usage 2 yrs ago, and I have only had them back for a year this month. I have been clean since this started. what should I do??? real scared. please help

2006-10-27 05:30:51 · 21 answers · asked by JANET 2

I’ve heard that if you are worried that your spouse will cheat on you that you create it. Do you agree ?
Say you were a person that wasn’t going to cheat but had a spouse that was very suspicious about it would that cause you to cheat ? Has anyone cheated purely for that reason ?

2006-10-27 05:30:05 · 11 answers · asked by JustMe 6

I'm not married, but i've often wondered about that when I hear about situations where one has cheated, and then the spouse ends up contracting something from them. I'm not saying it should be done, but i'm just asking do people do this? Is it disrespectful to even consider such a thing? In a perfect world, you wouldn't have to, but everyone is human.....

2006-10-27 05:29:36 · 14 answers · asked by LibraT 4

my mother thinks he's *trying* to get better...

I cannot convince them of how SERIOUS i am about reporting my car as stolen to the police...

please advise

2006-10-27 05:28:27 · 6 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5

We are just trying to keep things good in the bedroom, we have been married for 33 yrs, my husband has gained weight in his belly, most positions are imposible. Please help. Thanks

2006-10-27 05:27:18 · 11 answers · asked by mollydials24 2

ok me and my X are filening for divorce......we filled out the paperwork ourself since we don't want anything from each other and we don't ave any kids together we were only married for about a year i think, so how soon after we turn the paperwork in will we be devorced i really need to be divorced soon i'm about to have my baby from my new partner and i would really like to be divorced before my baby comes ...

2006-10-27 05:27:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says that he wants me only, but I'm not convinced. His car is in the shop, but then when it gets out, he is planning to stay in the state he's in & get a job instead of joining us where we moved after the seperation. Now I find out that he (he says he was only "venting") called & has her coming over a woman that he had a brief affair with about a year & half ago...I'm devestated...what to do??? 15 yrs of marriage this june...he has my two boys w/him...I have the girls...please help.

2006-10-27 05:24:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous