and she has big boobs and feels lingerie never fits/supports properly
2006-10-27 06:32:52 · 31 answers · asked by tabasco_mmmm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only thing I would suggest is to make sure that she knows that you adore her and her body. If you keep telling her, she will believe you.
2006-10-27 06:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably the first answer is your best bet. Unless she's an exceptional girl (then she'd already be wearing it) she won't appreciate being told what to do. If you buy it for her she will be passive aggressive and never wear it and brew over it for weeks and come up with the conclusion that you don't love her or you have some problem or something. Any of the other suggestions will probably end up in a fight. Here's what works: Wait till she's a little tore up from having 3 kids and she's overweight and past her prime, she'll try to flirt with other guys and they won't be interested and she'll want some attention at home finally and she'll wear all the lingerie she can find and you won't really want to see it. But it's not all bad.
2016-05-22 01:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go shopping with her and pick out something together. Encourage her to try something on. If she's got curves and hips and all then avoid Victoria Secret. I'm 5'9", curvy, and a D-cup and I love lingerie. I have the same support issues. I never find anything I like in Vicky's, nothing that fits me right, but I always find great things at Frederick's of Hollywood. I also heard about this site on the radio called www.figleaves.com and I checked it out. They have some nice things.... expensive but nice. And remember to remind her how beautiful she is :)
2006-10-27 07:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by QueenE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah Im pretty sure there are a lot of sexy bras for women with big boobs! She just needs to know how to shop. I mean if u go to Victoria's secret, the sales people there are specialized in measuring u and finding u bras that fit and the kind of bras u want to. Among other lingerie.
2006-10-27 06:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because all women get a poor self body image as they get older... the trick is to buy things that fit and flatter her figure... Wall mart lingerie is not made for women with larger busts...
try a ladies store that carries a lingerie line.. tell the woman what you want for your wife and if you can .. sneak a peek at her bra size.. the label is usually under the arm or in the back clasp... and don't buy anything that is sleezy to start with .. something soft and sexy... peach, pink, dark blue...but not red and maybe something long as apposed to too short
2006-10-27 06:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the store Lane Bryant, personally. They have experienced bra fitters there to help you...and if you want more than just a bra they have some great stuff to choose from. They range in sizes, so there is much to look at. You can go online and order, if she hates to try things on..like me. Or go in together and pick something out...TOGETHER. Have you talked to her to see why she has such low body image? Maybe if you two talk about it and then you can find a way to help her resolve this issue. Another reason I like Lane Bryant over V.Secrets is because L.B. carries most of their sizes in the store, V.S. has to order anything over a 'D' cup now. Good luck, and remember to let her know that she is and will always be the most beautiful woman in your life.
2006-10-27 07:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by LuLu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should get something a size larger than what she wears... Shouldnt matter how big or small she is.. Love her for what she has.. Maybe by u putting on something sexy for her will give the ideas of putting on that sexy piece for u!!!! I love me some lingerie.. To me thats one of the best things about feeling sexy is that.. good luck to u
2006-10-27 06:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lingerie is not supposed to "support". Go with her to a store and have her try them on. That could be kind of exciting. Who knows, you might just end up in the dressing room with her!
2006-10-27 06:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. You go buy her some sexy lingerie and make her understand that in your eyes she is the most beautiful woman in the world.
2006-10-27 06:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm set a mellow mood (Candles, Wine, Soft Music, Rose Petals, ect) Then buy her the set you want to see her in and have it wrapped in a nice Victoria's Secret box and give it to her to open. The reason why this will probably get her into it, is because when you buy it for her than there is no doubt you want to see her in it. Where as, if she went out she may be worried that the one she picks out you may not think she is very attractive in it. This will be so flattering for her to come home too. mmmm I almost wish I was her LOL ;-) Good Luck!!
2006-10-27 06:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she's beautiful in every way. Ask her why she doubts herself so much.
Then trat her to shopping for some lingerie, all the time she likes something, say how greatly it would suit her or how sexy she'd be in it.
2006-10-27 07:00:51 · answer #11 · answered by mikedirnt4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋