Marriage & Divorce - 27 October 2006

he wont wake up
hes grumpy
he keeps changing rooms and falling asleep again- he fell asleep i nthe bathroom fer chrisakes!
and no i dont have time to blow him first thing in the AM
i have kids

2006-10-27 05:22:17 · 12 answers · asked by justsomedumbgirl 3

My husband & I seperated in July & I could not at the time get my son to leave with me. He's 6 & his dad is verbally abusive to the female's in our family - me included. My older son is picking this up & is verbally abusive already at 11. I really need to get my younger son away from this environment, but I am not sure what to do. I have a small disability check each month to live on & legal aid said it would be 3 to 4 weeks before they would even process my app to know if they even COULD help...My situation feels hopeless, yet I love my little boy with all my heart & want him with me!
Are there papers I could file on my own without a lawyer, or can you be your own lawyer (that's scary, but it"s a thought!)
Or what are the legal helpers that help out attorneys - - starts with a "P" - - how would I find one of those that may work cheaper?

Any help or ideas out there?

Thank You!

2006-10-27 05:18:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thought that at least someone would have this experience. That after having a child or two they started realizing they had to set the example for their children. And that example is self control in regards to sex. There must be someone out there who hasn't come forward or who is not aware of this question who can honestly say they had this experience.

I mean, obviously most people go on trying to enjoy sex no matter how many children they have.

Couples! Has giving birth to children convinced you to reduce your sexual activity?

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Couples! Has giving birth to children had you realize that you simply can't have to much sexual enjoyment?

This question is in relation to another two questions regarding "traditional" or "old school" marriages.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsuWi2IMTGhwQVrQre1X01bsy6IX?qid=20061024235005AA52oBp

2006-10-27 05:15:36 · 21 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4

been married 13 years - 3 beautiful children - the flirting with an unmarried co-worker is increasing. i can't stop thinking about her and what it would be like to kiss her. i dont want to leave my wife and i dont want a relationship with my co-worker....whats up with me?

2006-10-27 05:13:26 · 17 answers · asked by tabasco_mmmm 1

The older I get, the more I wish I was not married and able to play the field. There are so many "hot" women out there to get to know better. What's wrong with "window shopping"?

2006-10-27 05:13:02 · 16 answers · asked by SeanB 2

my husband and i do the same thing every friday night, dinner and drinks or a movie , what else is there i'm going nuckingfux, my husband has had a affair and i feel sad and sick that i'm not exciting anymore..

2006-10-27 05:09:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance' has custody of his two kids, a home, a job, three dogs and all the responsiblities for taking care of everyone and everything. He doesn't have much time for me. His kids are always with him (their mother rarely sees them) and he doesn't feel comfortable getting a babysitter. His children constantly interupt us when we are in a private conversation or behind closed doors. They are old enough to fend for themselves, but constantly demand their dad's attention. It's been three weeks now since we have had any time alone (going out to dinner, etc) and I find out that tonight will be no different. The kids mom "still has the flu". Not sure if that's a cop-out or if it's really true. Happens too often. What should I do? Any suggestions?

2006-10-27 05:09:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom-in-law as told by husband is very nice at heart. We lived with her for couple months and sometimes she seemed very nice and sometimes not a very pleasant person. My husband understands it but he has an explanation that circumstances were different. It just seems to me that she has a hard time letting her son go. I dont know what to do. I tried talking to my husband about it. He seems like he understands but I dont see anything change in her behavior. She calls everyday 2 or sometimes even 3 times. I feel like I am married to my husband and her. He talks to her everyday and for some reasons it bothers me because I thought any mom-in-law would understand newly weds and give them some time for themselves. She HAS to call early in the morning and then late at night. We both are working and the only time we get is mornings and evenings and once this call comes I get ticked off. I dont want her to stop calling but atleast not 2 or 3 times a day and discuss every damn thing.

2006-10-27 05:07:46 · 7 answers · asked by Jean 1

I was married for 9 years and I cannot have kids due to uterine cancer. My husband and I were happy-or so I thought. He works construction and the last job lasted for 7 weeks. He went on the job to make money to pay for land and a new house we had purchased together. We had so many plans and talked every day while he was away and he told me how much he loved me and could not wait to move in our new house. Then 5 days before he came home he started acting funny on the phone and starting fights. He came home and told me he had been dating another woman for 5 weeks while he was away and that she makes him feel alive and passionate. He says that he loves me but is not in love with me but was gonna stay and move into the new house if he had not met her. I do not believe he was not happy or in love cause everything seemed so ideal. What do you think?

2006-10-27 04:55:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My exhusband recently got involved with a woman with 2 kids the same age as his own. He no longer has alot to do with his own girls to busy with his new ones I guess. I caught wind they have married recently with her girls there, his girls don't know anything about it. He is coming into town this weekend with new family to tell the girls. Am I being crazy because to me this seems like a bad father not even including his own kids. Am I wrong? Don't know how to make our girls not be so sad. Any Suggestions?

2006-10-27 04:55:16 · 6 answers · asked by tmc4 1

My own track record is pretty bad, so I've read a lot about what the experts say. Now I'm interested in what you think, especially if you have personal experience. Thanks!

2006-10-27 04:55:13 · 14 answers · asked by sandygram 1

Any thoughts: Big deal or not?

2006-10-27 04:54:48 · 36 answers · asked by bubbly_child 2

I asked this question prior but I neglected to mention that my ex is now retired from the military. My ex and I have been separated many years (15+), but never legally divorced (or legally separated for that matter). .Left me with no warning or provocation. Came home from work and found most of the furniture taken and no good bye note, nothing. Ruined what credit I did have trying to pay for home alone and living expenses alone on a meager income. How do I find out what benefits I am, if any, entitled too and who should I contact to get more information?? When i was abandoned, we lived in Virginia. At first, I just wanted closure, but now, I could use whatever help I can get. Never received nor asked for a dime but managed to get back on my feet alone.

2006-10-27 04:47:17 · 8 answers · asked by ripster0629 1

me and my boyfriend have been together for over 5 years. he gave me an engagement ring but didn't tell me when we would get married. i've asked, when and he keeps saying "when the right time comes" and "some day we will". i have also asked him about living together and he says we are someday, but he prefers a house, rather than just paying rent. .finally he's purchasing a house with his family and he wants me to move in. so i asked him finally we could get married, and he said maybe it' not a good idea right now because the payments might go up or there would be problems in getting the house. i understand once you get married they look at both people like one with doesn't want to get married anymore. i'm worry that hicombine income and all. but there wouldn't be problem right or interference for the loans or anything in dealing with the house? why would he feel that he s family might be telling him stuff since they talk a lot. what do you think??

2006-10-27 04:44:11 · 23 answers · asked by black_metal_mist 2

This pregnancy was planned but I started feeling really wierd,sad,and angry. At my brother in Laws wedding he totally ignored me,I would wake up and he would already be out of the hotel,he suggested I stay in the hotel with our 2 year old son so he does not make the bride to be mad if he talks during the ceremony,and he planned meetings on the last day of our trip. We agreed we would try to make this a vacation as well as a wedding trip. But he totally ignored me. SO I privately cursed him out and would send him cursing texts. He says he's never been talked to like that. It turns out that I have antepartem depression and I am also bipolar so I really over reaacted on the trip.I am now on meds and counseling and doing well.But now months later he is still very cold to me.Last month he said he can't handle my illness and he MAY want a divorce. We do not speak unless necessary, and I asked him for sex and he says no.This is so hard to deal with. I have my own struggles and preg! Help!

2006-10-27 04:35:40 · 18 answers · asked by Beautifulme 2

2006-10-27 04:32:59 · 9 answers · asked by mulu t 1

I have 29 years, work as consulting of computer science and am Brazilian I look a young woman whom relmente it desires to constitute a family, I wait reply. jean_claudio@yahoo.com.br

2006-10-27 04:31:28 · 8 answers · asked by Lobo 3

2006-10-27 04:29:11 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do I need to say in a response to a summons for downward child support modification, I do not agree with it, can i or should i ask for any visitation changes, my original papers are really not specific.

2006-10-27 04:27:48 · 8 answers · asked by mx944mom 2

In August this man asked me to move in with him because he knew I was having back surgery in September. I quit my job, gave up my apartment, and moved all of my things to his house. He asked me to marry him and gave me a beautiful diamond ring. He suffers from PTSD which is Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I found out he had been married 4x before. Everything was going well and we were happy until the first bout of PTSD took over. The next day he was remorseful. He called me everything but chocolate. He paid for all of my bills including my health insurance. I had the surgery on September 13th. He took care of me and I was very grateful. I am in rehabilitation for six months. The doctor doesn't want me to do anything but walk for another six weeks. My fiance then had another bout with PTSD,on Oct 9th. He took all of my things and threw them in the kitchen and asked me to leave. He took the ring back. I left on Oct 15th. Do I have any recourse? I have no job and no money

2006-10-27 04:25:19 · 10 answers · asked by Theresa K 1

My wife says she is okay with whatever happens, her freind told her she is going to F me, ... Is this going to cause problems with my wife?

2006-10-27 04:24:44 · 36 answers · asked by dan d 1

This is the dilemma: I used to have a dream about having a certain future... A future that was not really going to be happening for me, just because I had too much of fantasy what concerned love and life. (I was 17y)
Now 12 y later I found out that the person that I had this fantasy about, had exactly the same fantasy as me (and still)... We lost contact a few times during the years, but lately we talk a lot to eachother about anything and it really feels like a good friendship...

The only thing is that I do have a boyfriend (already for 7y now). And he is great too. But at the moment we are going to a rough time. I don't want to loose him because I really love him. (and I would never cheat him)But I sometimes miss the fireworks I heard about and I wonder if I should listen to what my heart told me all those years ago.
Is this foolish? Is there something like faith. Finding the one true love? Or is it just crap, and should I settle for what I have instead of what I could have?

2006-10-27 04:24:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just get on here and it kind of brings me down. Who loves there husband and marriage?

2006-10-27 04:18:52 · 19 answers · asked by LeeLynn 5

2006-10-27 04:17:51 · 21 answers · asked by Hustler 1

I have been married for 20 years and just now going thru a divorce. During our marriage I did not work that much, I was a stay at home mom. My husband has always made good money and took good care of us. Now that we are getting a divorce I do not understand spousal support that my lawyer said he might can get for me. It's so hard right now and having to start all over again at my age. Can anyone help that has gone thru this?

2006-10-27 04:15:54 · 5 answers · asked by Janet 1

I got marry at a young age had 2 babys with my ex husband got divorce. My boyfriend for 2 1/2 years at the begining of the relationship he wanted kids and I didnt cause I was scare now I want a baby my kids are 8 & 6 I feel like Im ready but he dont want babys.

2006-10-27 04:15:29 · 17 answers · asked by negra 1

I am so broken heart. He said we may need not to be togther and then he said yes we will not fight again from now on. (we are on long distance) This is not the first time he wants to leave me. He is blaming me for this fight and telling me this is all because of me he is again thinking to leave me. The reason he was upset because i disconneted my phone for one day after he said some mean things tow days ago. I dont know. He does say mean things, when i take action and then he blames me for fight. Please help i am so sad write now. Is he is gonna leave me again.

2006-10-27 04:15:00 · 13 answers · asked by ALMAS 1

2006-10-27 04:14:38 · 7 answers · asked by seeme 1

2006-10-27 04:14:29 · 13 answers · asked by spartacus 1

1 year old oblivious, of course, Very perceptive 6 year old.

2006-10-27 04:10:43 · 18 answers · asked by Pissed off 1