I am so broken heart. He said we may need not to be togther and then he said yes we will not fight again from now on. (we are on long distance) This is not the first time he wants to leave me. He is blaming me for this fight and telling me this is all because of me he is again thinking to leave me. The reason he was upset because i disconneted my phone for one day after he said some mean things tow days ago. I dont know. He does say mean things, when i take action and then he blames me for fight. Please help i am so sad write now. Is he is gonna leave me again.
2006-10-27 04:15:00 · 13 answers · asked by ALMAS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
honestly who cares if he does leave you, if he doesn't do it now, he is going to eventually, the threat is a control factor, and so is blaming you for the fights, CONTROL.. maybe you should just get out now, and find some comfort within yourself and then find someone who will not say mean things to you.. best of luck my dear..
2006-10-27 04:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a normal relationship. It is very hard to be in two differnet places trying to live your lives.
You need to let this one go and find someone who lives where you do.
It is impossible to have a relationship over the telephone or computer......you both get lonely and will seek other people where you live. It is very likely to happen this way.
Because you are both upset and lonely, you will say things that will cause a fight. You can't help it....
If he has left once before and this is how it is now..... wouldn't you be happier alone, than fighting all the time...
You will get over it. This is not good for your spirit and soul... This relationship has not grown from the start... it is time for something better for you...
2006-10-27 04:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you are not in a healthy relationship. I am also engaged and in a long distance relationship that stretches across that the atlantic ocean and we make it work because we both know what we want. Long distance is not an excuse for a failed relationship and he's clearly not the guy for you. It will take time but you need to move on. Hang in there.
2006-10-27 04:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by OE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're feeling a little happier now, however it does seem that you are both playing silly little games. You will never be happy in a relationship with a person who keeps threatening to leave you. Tell him it will be his loss and move on, I am sure there are plenty of other nice guys worthy of your affection. Best wishes and smile !
2006-10-27 04:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds pretty unstable to me--thats the bad thing about long distance relationship--they can be total jerks and then expect everything to be ok again after you cool off---id take this as an indicator of things to come---
2006-10-27 04:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you want to continue to be with someone who belittles you, starts fights with you and then blames you. This doesn't seem fair. And be glad you are not married because it would just be worse. You seem like an upstanding person and you should not put up with this guy's antics. If he truly loved you and appreciated you, he would not talk to you or treat you this way.
Good luck, darlin!
2006-10-27 04:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him i think it not health for both of you and it your fault to youy can;t disconneted your phone if you want to be together then move with him or let him to move with you otherwise you two will fight forever
2006-10-27 04:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only hope you're lucky enough for him to leave again!! Of course he won't leave permanently - he'll always come back to make your life hell.
It's time for you to take action and tell him to F**k off permanently!
2006-10-27 04:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds you have a rought life it this happens occasionally maybe you need ot reconsidering marring this guy you could up alone and paying for divorce due to the fact he is leavign again.
2006-10-27 04:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by vomissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of that guy is the biggest freaking jerk on the earth. it is the meanest factor i ever heard. via A text fabric! the least he ought to of performed replaced into tell u on your face i understand u decide for to pay attention his rationalization and u have a top to. u ought to flow to promenade inclusive of your acquaintances nonetheless. dont omit out on that! have a great day and attempt to no longer think of approximately it. (it is going to b frustrating) :)
2016-10-03 00:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by hobin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋